06/30/2012
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So fed up!!

Time for a lil vent... I have 4 bridesmaids and only 2 are making any effort. The thing that makes this so bad is that the two who aren't going anything are my own sisters! I continually ask them could they please just make Assn effort and pretend they care about my day but uh uh just too much. And my friends are feeling as if they're just being given all the labor while my sisters just getan easy ride. I agree with them. So now one of my sisters are mad because I wouldn't let her pan the bridal shower solo (cause everyone wanted to pitch in p and she's saying she want to drop out the wedding. I didn't even want them in the wedding in the first place but my mother insisted. Now I'm the one who must make this work. Then to top it all off one of my bridesmaids will have to be out of town the week of my bridal short do that just leaves one girl planning and paying for everything by herself. So imma step in and help plan my own bridal shower. This sucks so bad I just wanna cry. It's asking to much for my own family to think about somebody other than themselves.
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flrjohnson's Red wedding
flrjohnson
 |  Atlanta, GA, USA  |  06/30/2012  | 
I'm sorry you're going through this hun. I know how you feel. All you can do is keep control of things and keep your cool about it. Try to do what you can by being straight forward, speaking up, and taking some of the things into your own hands. It sucks, but sometimes if you want to get something done, you do have to do it yourself. I'm doing the same thing too. But stuff is getting done. There are just some people you can't rely on 100%. It's unfortunate, but true.
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ourwedding13
 |  Bolingbrook, IL, USA  |  07/01/2012  | 
So true. Sometime the people you want and should be able to count on disappoint you more than you thought. Sorry you have to deal w/ that family drama. I guess if you have to, you just have to plan it, at least you know what you're gonna be happy with how it turns out ;)
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