Family

It all came bubbling over

My mom and oldest sister (who's my matron of honor) came up tonight to try to have a conersation with Rob, his mother, and myself. I didn't know they were coming until they got here. Mom asked to have a civil adult conversation and Rob agreed and called his mom over.

It last 3 hours almost before my mom and sister stormed out. All this after his mother tried to come after my sister, physically; he threatened to call the cops to make my sister leave because she refused to leave while I was sitting outside rocking back and forth crying because I was so stressed; and my mom and his mom had a HUGE screaming match.

In the end, Rob's mother (and even partly Rob), tried to push the blame off on me. I was "miscommunicating" with people or I was "misunderstanding" them. So, I'm apparently just a bridezilla bitch (because I wanted the cake that I want, not a home made cake and because I wanted to be a part of setup).

Now Rob says he's done planning, his mom says she's done planning.......neither of them want to have any input or any part of the rest of it. Right now, Rob hasn't even spoke to me since his mother left 2 hours ago.

I feel like everything is falling apart around me and like it's all my doing. If I had done SOMETHING, ANYTHING differently.....maybe I could have made everyone happy. Everyone but me, atleast. But that would be fine, as long as everyone else was happy and got along.