Hey Ladies,
My man & I had a busy weekend, we started our premarital counselling, we met with our officiating pastor for the same. i must admit i was nervous, its never easy to be in the presence of elders especially when they are giving u advise on what to expect as u are getting into something, its kinda uncomfortable when u have to talk about sex & other personal issues. well he told us he doesn't do all the talking on the big day we will need to write our own vows which i really thought was cool, though i feel its a lot of work but atleast we will get to tell the world what we really feel for each other & the pastor insisted that not only do we get more involved we also take the vows seriously because we know what we would be committing ourselves to. i am kinda excited & nervous as well; i am not a good public speaker, i hope i won't forget my vows on that day guess i gotta keep it short & simple.
wish me luck ladies!!!!