This is luv2kisshim's Green Wedding!

OK so im sure ill get bitched at or whatever but i dont care

to everyone not wearing heels down the aisle-

1. your a girl
2.girls wear heels
3. why wear a dress and not heels
4. if you have to wear them everday to get used to them DO IT
5. heels are sexy
6. I'm tired of hearing i cant walk in heels and im not a heel girl

i totally understand during the reception but the ceremony is what 45minutes long COME ON.

Uhhh just put some damn heels on

......oh and btw this is MY blog you chose to read it sooo DEAL with IT!!!

another thing i never said you have to wear them everyday i was saying if you cant walk in them then freakin learn. I have posted blogs that say how i feel before. FAKE FLOWERS........ yeah i am nice but im also very outspoken and i could care less if yalll think im mean now or before my wedding. I am not frustrated i just think its doesnt make sense to have a very expensive gown on and to wear tennis shoes. Yeah it a very different story if you are on the beach or in grass but if you are sipmly not wearing shoes cause you cant walk in them thats SAD!! And you cant tell me heels arent SEXY, they ARE!! Also I am not telling anyone what to do or how to do it I am simply saying that i think on such a special day special heels are a must. Wear flats, wear tennis shoes, wear flipflops I JUST THINK ITS CRAZY.

yay they are awesome pictures they did an amazing job

here is the link to view all the pictures
http://cpoweddings.exposuremanager.com/

password peikert

i stole these from his blog
cpoweddings.com

ok so i still havnt gotten my professional pics yet but it should be soon!!!!!

OMG its over!!!! everything went amazing. I had a few freakouts.

I did all the flowers and they turned out great!!! 4 bouquets, 15 centrpeices, 8 boutonnieres and 6 pomanders.

I FORGOT MY BRA AND PETTICOAT!!!!!!! omg i freaked out it was 15 minutes till the ceremony i had notime to go home and get it. So after almost having a heart attack i tried on my dress with my friends bra it looked fine actually i looked skinnier it wasnt as poofy.

Oh everything was beautiful i dont regret a thing the chocolate fountian was a huge hit the food was great and my DJ made the night amazing!!!!! I had a slide show but i only played it during dinner and right after the ceremony during pictures. My photographers were the best, very patient and sweet. They took tons of pictures!!!!!! I get my pictures in about 2 weeks. I dont have very many pictures yet but as soon as i get more i will post them.

Aiden did great walking down the asile he looks so adorable in his tux. Our first dance was perfect we ran off after dinner to my bridal room to practice (ha ha) right before. My dad made me CRY when i danced with him (the song was super long though) haha.

I would reccomend to all brides to get EVERYTHING together the night before because then you wont have to rush around and forget things. I forgot my garter tooo so i opted not to do the bouquet and garter toss. NO BIGGIE! I'm sooo happpy its over but now im a bit bored with myself ha ha ha ha but i am very happy to be Mrs. Niznik.

NOW I HAVE TO PLAN AIDENS 1st BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! YAY

just a few more days

ok sorry i didnt finish the post.......

My parents live in the country and my dad takes this farm road to work at 7am every morning. He drives a pretty big dulie....(truck with 4 wheels in the back). He was going about 50mph He saw this car waiting to turn onto the road and well the idiot pulled out right infront of my dad. LONG COUNTRY ROAD COULDNT WAIT...my dad thinks he was trying to kill himself. My dad went to the hospital his back is hurting him very badly and he already had a bad back. He is ok but his HUGE truck is TOTALED but insurance is covering everything. I know God was protecting him. He had STEEL beams in the bed of the truck and they could have broken through the back and hit my dad THANKFULLY they didnt. MY poor daddy feels like crap though UHHH some people are just plain idiots!!!! they other guy is ok i think.......

We are going to Lakeside Lodge at 6:30pm for a rehersal then afterwards we are going to Alamo Cafe. YUMMY This is my all time favorite resturant. Its Tex-MEX I have been going to this resturant since i was a little girl. Almost every Thursday night (dads payday) we would go out to dinner to Alamo Cafe. I have tried many items there and I have always liked everything from the enchiladas to the chicken fried steak. Oh im soo excited just to eat! ha ha fat ass. Well anyways Wish me LUCK the the rehersal goes smoothly.

Last Tuesday i ordered allmy flowers from Travis whole sale 250 roses, 350 carnations, 1 bunch of hypercium berries all for $350 Im really exited about the flowers not worried one bit about doing them myself. I am only having 75 guests with 10 tables. I am making 15 centerpeices, 9 boutenieeres, 4 bouquets, 10 pomanders, and 6 corsages. It shouldnt be to difficult.

ok so our venue for the reception and ceremony is at the same place. it is at a lake with a gazebo and then the hall. Well we rented it out in September and paid for it in full. Well 7 months later we go back in the Spring time and there are places in the grass that are DEAD like just dirt. I was sooo pissed off when i saw that we paid $1500 for the place which i think is a bit pricy for what we are getting. Any how i told them and the lady just told me that the already tried to fix it and couldnt. So i said ok then the next day i emailed her district manager and today she called me to let me knoe that they would be laying new grasss where is was dead! ha ha I WIN the BRIDE always WINS!!!!!!

what do yall think about the necklace with the earings???? I bought the necklace today for 40% off of $165. The earings are from prom my junior year they are kinda a different color but does it look bad??

ok so ive done this a few times now and got busy so my laptop turned it self off dang it.

ok so i want everyones opinion im meeting with my DJ tomorrow to pay my balance and to go through the final decisions

RECEPTION MUSIC

*Introduction of wedding party- L-O-V-E, by nat king cole then they will fade it out and GROW OLD WITH ME by Adam Sandler will play while we walk in.
*First dance- At Last by Etta James
*Father daughter Dance- Stealing Cinderella by Chuck Wicks
*Cutting the Cake- Sugar, sugar by the archies
*garter and bouquet toss
-girls just wanna have fun by cindi lauper
-wild thing by the troggs

I also have a list of songs i want played
Michelle Featherstone- we are man and wife (BEAUTIFUL)
Taylor Swift- Our Song
Tim McGraw- Its your love
Elvis presly- all shook up and only fools rush in
Dido- thank you

we started dance lessons last friday. I went pretty well. Our instructor is making a dance to our song (at last-etta james) we got the basics down this friday i hope we learn something fun like a turn or a dip something. OH im sooo happy we are taking classes. It going to look so perfect. Its not that we cant dance its that we are that great at it and we only know how to country dance. welll i dirty dance but that doesnt count ha ha. I HIGHLY SUGGEST DANCE CLASSES

i dont remember what the dance is called but its pretty easy....one step to the right then to the left then two steps back

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so im really not nervous i still just want everything to go as i have planned i still have a lot to do also im really worried about the little details.
im kinda confused on a few things like the order of events during the cermony and reception anyone know how it supposed to go or where i can find a good list.

LIST
-programs
-order flowers
-decide on recpetion dinner location
-cake serving set
-guestbook pen
-groomsmen gifts...whomp
-frames for pictures
-finish baking cookies
-find chocolates

ok so i put trash bags in the vase just to hold the sticks still they wont be there the day of. what do yalll think though honestly... im still not sure where i will be puting it. it was pretty easy and not too expensive

do yall think there needs to be more?
suggestions on what to put in the bottom of the vase to hold it alll still

UPDATE

ok so i took marthas suggestion

i added a ribbon and i put it in pebbles i had some laying around but i also made it stand a little more UPRIGHT does it look better

OMG it was sooo much fun first we got pedicures (I forgot to get pictures of that ) then got dresees at my place with a bit of a pre party then the limo picked u up at 8:30 then the Melting pot for dinner YUMMMYYYYY soooo much FUN then midnight rodeo for some dancing and drinks

one day i know he will be getting married just like me and his father i mean hes such a stud now!! The girls are going to be crazy over him lol. the tux is more ivory then here not sooo white

Well what do yalll think

ok so i went to bobbi brown to get my make up trial done and well my mom said i looked exactly the same as when i do it myself but with lipstick. Also i didnt know they were gonna charge me to get a trial done 3 products and $70 later i will not be getting it done the day of.

in this picture i did it myself i want to get fake lashes and lipstick with some better blush but i like my eyeshadow

yay i got his ivory tux with tail yesterday is soooo cute on him OMG he looks like a little man in it.

so this is the cutest idea EVER i absoutly love this and i am going to die my petticoat pink because this is adorable

UPDATE- ITS DONE!!! doesn't show through

i used RIT dye fuscia color but its about the same color as the picture it was preety easy to do i did it in the bath tub.

if anyone does it GOOD LUCK

so this past week aiden started walking so i doubt he will sit in a wagon. I know it might make it difficult for my cousin to walk with him but i think it will be best for him. But i still need to buy his tux

for the brides who dont have their invites yet and are planning on DIY go check out your local TARGET i saw a whole bunch of reallly cute ones some were on clearance tooo but make sure you buy an extra package incase you have a lot of mistakes LIKE ME because when you go back they might not have it. GOOD LUCK

p.s. the ones online arn't as cute as the ones at the store

old- my wedding band it was my grandmas
new- dresss derr....
borrowed- not sure maybe jewelry
blue- toe nails a very light blue though like the tips

these i made for the ceremony chairs i made 4 one for each parent.
do yall like them??

i bought the girls shoes today. I went into NINE WEST the outlet and i saw them they match the top of my dress that champagne color wellll i was soooo excited so i bought them and they willl pay me back i hope they fit if not there feet are going to be soar.

SORRRY i cant post a picture i went to a party and lost my camera sooooooooo YEAH......im pissed

1. cheap alternative to a cute pen
2. cute idea to cover eye sore in photo 3
3. EYE SORE
4. to reserve seats
5. on maybe cake table or gift table
6. ballons the venue is hard to find
7. programs im naking but with just an "N" and ivory ribbon

ok soooo i think this table is soooo pretty i wont have the fabric in the back or the hanging crystals. my table will have 3 bouquets mine in the middle and two bridesmaid bouquets on the ends two small centerpeices in-between the 3 and candles in-between each vase and petals what do yalll think????

Ok i need to mail out my invites pronto but the problem is my printer sucks....its a canon brand new and it worked for a while but now it keeps telling my its jammed ITS NOT!!! wellll my other problem is i made my invites on microsoft works not word so my mom can bring the file up on her computer im going to kill myself uhhhhhhh what do i do?????????????????


DONT choose DIY invites UHHHHHHHHHHHH soooo annoyed

UPDATE---- ABOUT 1 hr later with my handyman like ways i figured out how to TRICK my printer sooooo YAY ALLL PRINTED now i just have to put together my remaining 30 YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yesterday i made an appt for saturday to get a trial done with Bobbi Brown at SACS. I got my make-up done once from them for a wedding i went to and it turned out really good very natural and not overdone. You have to buy 3 products for them to do your wedding make-up ehhh not too bad I guess. As long as i like it.

just a few

does anyone know of a good champagne that is a reasonable price??
We are not big drinkers esp not wine drinkers so i would love any suggestions.

I made this music player at MyFlashFetish.com.

OK so I'm only having about 100 ppl MAX and I'm just not sure if a seating chart is necessary. I've read before that people prefer having one but its going to be so time consuming. Plus I'm still confused where I put everything (Ceremony and reception are at the same place and i dont want to crowd the entry way with tooo much SHIT!) ha ha im starting to get annoyed by people and details really quick. Can yall give me your opinion on this ISSUE?

K thanks!

the picture is where everyone will be entering... any ideas on decorating that doorway

OK so im not nervous to get married im nervous about everything going as planned. I have sooo much to do still gahhhhh



TO DO LIST
-find & buy wagon
-buy a few different vases
-buy candles
-buy flutes
-buy cake knife and server
-pen
-buy Aidens TUX
-my jewelry
-buy Aidens shoes
- make programs
-finish favor boxes
-finish invites
- decide on seating chart stuff
- My Girls need to get their dresses altered PRONTO
- table layout
- pick a champagne


AHHHHHH OMG STRESSED OUT

ok so im having a horriable week! It's freaking less than 2 months till the wedding and everyone is causing drama in my life.

1st all of Justins friends are always giving their INPUT on how we live our lives. He works and goes to school and I am a stay at home mom. They think I should work, and always try to make me feel bad. Number 1 its not their business and number 2 justin doesnt want me to work he would rather me be at home with our baby and number 3 I would be working to pay for day care! This upsets me!

-Saturday-Craig (best man) is crazy he wants to know why Justin picked him as his bestman and not Anthony because they were friends longer...... I have no idea why this is an issue but he made it one. He was drunk and was screaming and yelling saying he wanted to know why! Anthony totally understood why Justin picked Craig (but we are now not so sure) Then Craig was saying Justin picked him because I wanted him to be the best man(NOT TRUE) because me and Brittany were really close. Anyways i was so upset fom alll the yelling and Craig being mean to me I told Craig "if it was up yo me you wouldn't even be in the wedding!"

Today-Tuesday- I texted all my girls that they need to pick up their dresses as soon as possiable and pay the remaining amount so we can get them altered and said i didnt want to wait till the last minute because my grandma is doing it for them. Brittany (Craigs GF) texted me back say that if i didnt want her in the wedding i should tell her and if i had something to say to her then i need to tell it to her face. i was so confused and them she said that she heard i didnt want her in the wedding. so after a few minutes of me tellling her i never said that and hoping she would still be in my wedding i had a breath of fresh air, for a second. I feel like im back in high school with all this drama!!!!

PLEASE TELLL ME OTHER BRIDES DEAL WITH DRAMA

hey i just wanted to say...welll if you dont already know this, the forever stamp will last forever soooo if you are worried about the cost going up just buy them now. I know they arent the most attractive but if you are worried about the price go make a purchase at the post office.

I just got my disk with my pictures on it.

*Sparks Photography*

Ok so my bouquet is going to have pink roses, green hydrangea, and green hypercuim berries.

my MOH will have an all light pink rose bouquet
bridesmaids dark and light pink rose bouquet

-groom will have a pink rose boutonniere
-groomsmen a green rose boutonniere

father...... any ideas????

mothers.......?????

so using my flowers from valentines. i made my centerpeices. Mine of chorse will be dark and light pink roses and have sliced limes in the vase on bottom, so a lot different but this is the basic design and these are the vases im using. im going to do 3 candles on the table and petals too.

blahhhh they loook soooo trashy i have a small budget but i would rather do my own and cut cost in other places than have allll fake flowers some are fine but not for centerpeices or bouquets its just UGLY

the only thing im using fake for is the gazbo because it in the background where people wont be up close. but i do not think a wedding should ever be alll fake

OK so I really want to lose 5-10 lbs......uhhh its annoying me sooo much. I'm back down to my pre baby weight but i just can seem to lose anymore weight. Does anybody know of any good diets?? Because I willll have to end up starving myself the week before the wedding if i dont figure something out SOON

This is our menu

Heavenly Stuffed Chicken
w/white wine cream sauce and artichoke hearts.
Garlic Mashed Potatos
Grean bean w/candied Carrots and slivered almonds
Ceaser Salad
Yeast Rolls

it was soooo YUMMY I can't wait till the wedding!!!

Ok SOOOOO I'm regretting that I decided on making my own cookies. I just got done making 20 cookies they are pretty big i would say 3 1/2 inches by 2 1/2 inches well it toook me an hour. Thats what a double recipe made. I'm going to freeze them (they will be fine i do it all the time) and then the week of Ice them.......KILL ME NOW!!! I have 80 more to go.

I don't think this would be as stressful if I could do it during the day but I have a 9mth old baby BOY who I stay at home with. Long story short the only time I have is at night its now 2AM and i have to wake up early to do some major wedding planning tomorrow with my mom.

Invatations, Flowers, Officant.....IM STRESSED

Who has gone over already???? I think it is impossable to stay within a budget no matter how big or little it is.

So I attempted to make my own guestbook. The first try was bad.....wellll i didnt exactly follow the directions but the second try looks great!!!! I think I might add a "N" in pink rhinestones. I will post pics soon I still need to put paper for the guests to sign inside of it. If anybody wants me to scan it so you can make your own let me know.

Okay so I just read thats what is called makes a lot of sense too.

Our Last name will be Niznik

we are going to have an "N" cake topper
im puttin round "N" sticker labels on my favor boxes
Our DJ is going to put a "N" in a light on our dance floor
my programs will have an "N" on the front
cocktail napkins
and my Cookie are going to have a "N" on them tooo

so any other ideas without being overdone

We finally booked our chocolate fountian. The lady does really pretty table decorating her website is Funandfancychocolate.com. Ahh I can't wait just for that.

I have a few of the songs that I will be playing at the wedding and our story and other stuff.

OMG Finally...... ha ha i didnt even have my shoes for my Bridal Portraits or for my fitting I am just soo picky i couldnt decide. Today I went to The Shops at La Canterra (mall) and I found them at ALDO.
As soon as I bought them I called my MOH to tell her I was sooo excted.
I wear a size 5 1/2 and all they carry arewhole sizes so i had to get those sole things to make them fit perfect.

Morning-Night i think about every and anything make list after list drink soda after soda im all hyped up on Dr. Pepper. Anyways I was actually writing this because i have a short funny story.

Last night when Justin came home from work (he works a night shift) he was talking to me and I was mumbling and then said SHUT UP.....so he went in the living room and OUT OF NOWHERE i said "It's SOO PRETTY!" ha ha ha i dont ever remember anyof my dreams so i have no clue what i was talking about but im just guessing that it had someting to do with the wedding.


DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE YOUR WEDDING ON THE BRAIN 24/7 ????

Bestman - Craig

Groomsmen- Anthony

Groomsmen- Michael

Justing went to high school with all of these fools. Craig and Anthony played baseball with Justin all four years. Anthony and Justin have been good friends for a while i think 8th grade. Michael and Justin go to college together and have the same major.

Cause Im planning on using different kinds roses, carnations, maybe hydranga, maybe tulips