So this is how my hair ended up. I did a low updo. LOVED it! It was hot that day so I was glad that I had it off my neck! She did a slight bump on top and pulled some back into a barrette I had picked out. She then proceeded to curl all the rest of my hair and then pin it all up into the low messy bun. I Loved it. It even looked cute after my curls started to fall by the end of the night. I was pleased. The hair was low enough where I could use the barrette as my veil base. So the veil was still over my hair, but didnt stick up above my head hardly at all. I didn't want that. But the best part was that the veil was just stuck into the hair, that once the pictures were done at the ceremony I was easily able to take the veil off and put it aside to start the party! I didn't want to have to worry about it pulling my hair our for the rest of the day. I was glad I took that route! Easy in.. easy out.. looks good for the pics but I didn't have to wear it all night. Here are some pics that I have so you can sort of see how it all ended up.. for those of you still figuring hair out!