We are having a mariachi band play at the reception during cocktail hour and dinner....then the dj will be there for the "after party". This was the best i could do to avoid any problems because part of his family is VERY conservative and don't believe in dancing!!! I think the mariachi band will represent my Spanish heritage anyways and im excited to see how people react. After all this is a CELEBRATION and it is my day and if i want to dance no one is going to stop me...lol