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My FH is a pretty neat/orderly person.  He does pick up after himself most of the time, but there are a few things that do "irk" me.  

I hate how he comes home filty dirty (he's an automotive mechanic). We have a porcelain tub with white tile walls, and it's impossible to keep it clean.  I have to scrub for like an hour to get all his "car funk" off the walls and tub every single weekend!
He shaves his head bald all the time, and always leaves hair and shaving cream all over the sink!
He takes the garbage out and never puts a new bag in the trash can, so when I go to throw something away there isn't a bag... it only happens when I have something disgusting and slimy too so I'm just standing there like "what do I do??" LOL

Other than that he's pretty good about picking up after himself, thank goodness!!

Wow..some of that sounds like my fiance!  i cant walk by him without him smacking or grabbing my butt!  Heres my list...

~When he washes clothes...he seems to only get his clothes in the washer!  None of mine!

~He steals the covers from me at night and then gets mad when I jerk them back on top of me!

~He comes home from work with his dirty shoes and walks around the house with them on and gets ALL of the floors dirty!

~He thinks he controls the TV

~His snoring/drooling/talking in his sleep which means I get NO sleep!

~When he shaves and doesnt clean out the sink...YUCK!

But He is an amazing guy and I love him!

oh lord...where do i begin??

~ he is uncontrollable when he sleeps. ie. his snoring shakes the walls and he elbows me in the face at night (not sure if the second isnt on purpose)

~ he waits until the most innapropriate moment to loudly slap my ass...like in line at a crowded grocery store

~ i'm not sure if he realizes that the toilet seat has a down position because he's always leaving it up

~ he is very thoughtful...sometimes to the point where he is completely indecisive! i've actually decided not to do paper invitiation because i dreaded the 3 month discussion about what template to use, then what ribbon, then what wording. instead i am just going to telephone guests and invite them.

I love my FH too, but he does a few things that drive me crazy:
-he shaves his head bald and leaves hair all over the floor and sink.
-he will do laundry...but refuses to sort the clothes into: whites, colours, darks...like a normal person does
-any opportunity he has to grab my boobs, he does
-every week, he has some new one liner that he thinks is funny...but most of the time it's just annoying

I don't live with mine yet, but I spend 3 days a week at his place like I live with him (I'm sure the list will grow when I move in lol)
but so far:

1-the way he loads his dishwasher!  I rearrange it everytime I come over so that more can fit in.
2-He always seems to wiggle to the center of the bed at night and it's impossible to wake him up so that he'll move over!
3- The bum grabbing/squeezing when I walk up the stairs is definitely a big one!
4-Okay this one most of you will not get, but he is TOO clean!  We finish eating and as I'm swallowing my food he's putting things away, I take a bathroom break during a tv show and he's spraying down and wiping the coffee table! :P

All in all he's an "O.K" guy lol, His quirks make me laugh, I love him to death!

Ahh I hate it when I ask him to fold the laundry (after I just washed every item of clothing we own) three days later I finally do it, I usually leave his clothes on the couch (hopeing he'll put them away) until I get sick of looking at them and put them on the chest at the end of the bed, the next day everything is unfolded and on the floor.. usually a couple days later it ends up in the laundry still clean (sometimes still folded). As bad as it sounds I like having a roommate because my FHs stuff doesn't annoy me as much!

OMG... it is truly amazing how similiar all guys are... Just the general lack of attention to details...

I go through basically the same thing, in addition to leaving all the lights on, always!!! and always wearing his shoes in the house (we have new carpet)!!!

Well I have some of the same problems. I love this man to death but some things he do, just makes me want to push him down a flight of stairs.
1. Grabbing my but in front of his family
2. leaving his shoes and socks all over the bedroom floor.
3.OMG!! Never taking his clothes from the washer or if he does never removing them from the dryer.
4. Using my bathroom when I have told him to stay out and use his which i designated just for him up in the front of the apartment.

i love reading this because it show so many similarities between our men LOL especially the butt pinching one! Here are mine

#1 smacks/pinches my butt every time we walk up the stairs, if he walks by me on the gym and i'm on an eliptical, if I'm bent down to pick something up, if I walk by really close to him.  It has gotten to the point I know when he's going to do this so I have learned to put my hand over my butt although sometimes he catches me off guard and gets away with it LOL

#2 leaves his hairs in the sink after he shaves

#3 putting his dirty socks under the couch so I don't see them and tell him to pick them up. then when I pull out the couches to clean I find tons of socks everywhere.  and he must wear at least 5 pairs a day sometimes or he layers them cause I swear i find dozens under that couch

#4 waiting til 2 minutes before we leave to get ready, when he had all day to get ready and then we are late because he waited to close until the time we had to leave to get ready.

I loved reading these this was a good post!

Honestly, I don't really have any of the dirty/messy/cluttery problems. He is really good about washing and folding laundry and doing the dishes and all that stuff. My complaints are a little different.

1. being goofy and generally embarrassing in public.

2. not shaving his face for like 4 days in a row.

I've been sitting here about ten minutes trying to come up with something else, but I can't. I guess I'm pretty lucky.

1)He twitches in his sleep & smacks me.
2)He  has way more clothes than I do. Most of them are T-shirts & carharts.
3)He wants to keep every thing. He keeps bring home stuffed animals.
He is a neat freak but I love that. It’s a short list but they drive me nuts

haha so funny, men are so similar!!

1- He takes off his pants when he gets home and leaves them random places around the house

2- He makes peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches in the middle of the night and leaves the crumbs everywhere and never puts the peanut butter back in the pantry

3- He has this ugly comforter that he refuses to sleep without and it never matches with anything else

4- His solution if I don't want to make dinner is not to go see what he can find to make but to order out


5- He loves watching the tv in the basement, I know it's a bigger tv but I hate being in the basement when it's nice out and then it's pitch black in the basement!

Gotta love him though!

lol D is pretty neat but here are the things that drive me MAD

1. eats hot chips right before we go to sleep

2. thinks that espn and basketball is the only thing we should be watching

3. falls asleep with the tv volume blasting

4. likes to tickle me anytime i raise my hands up

5. puts WET towel or wash cloth in the dirty clothes hamper.

gotta love him.

lol My Fiance does some of the same things!

1. He'll hang up his towel but still use whichever one suits him anyway (ie MINE!)
2. Same as you're #3 he always puts dishes on the disposal side & doesn't at least rinse them out, ewe
3. Smacks/pokes my butt when going up stairs behind me. (I just return the favor now hah)
4. Eats the last of anything & leaves the container in the fridge or takes it out & leaves it on the counter! (What the hell dude?)
5. Won't hang up/put away his clothes... I even bought more hangers for him since we have a walkin closet now & still doesn't use them.
6. Leaves empty shower gel/shampoo containers in the shower.
7. Everytime I get into the shower the shower head is pointed right at the wall aka my head! I'm not 6'2' gah!

I do have to say I love it when he gets in cleaning rampages & I come home to spotless house =] He's good guy besides his quirks & he has to deal with mine just the same! haha

OMG THEY ARE ALL THE SAME LMAO
MY FH DRIVES ME CRAZY HE WILL SHAVE AND HAIR IS EVERY WHERE  DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT HIM CLEANING IT UP CAUSE HE WILL SAT IN A MIN BABE THAT MIN NEVER COMES

OMG THE CLOTHES ALL OVER THE HOUSE
HE EATS AND DRINK UP EVVVVVVVVEEEEERRRRRRYYYY THING THERE IS

HE DRINKS OUT OF THE BOTTLE
HE SMACKS MY BUTT 20TIMES A DAY NO MATTER WERE WE ARE
THEY ARE ALL THE SAME
BUT I LOVE HIM

wow. from what I read.. you girls have got perfectly normal guys and have got it made! lol. I didn't mean in that in a weird way! I promise.. my ex husband was abusive, cheated, inprisoned me. I mean inprisoned me like for real.... it could be worse. I would have LOVED to found a wet towel on the floor and had that be my woe.






but with my hubby now.... he cusses in his sleep. I'm serious. When he is dreaming and in his dream a confrontation or a fight comes up, he speaks outloud. One night I listened to him "fighting" with his sister and he called her a hussy and I busted out laughing and woke him up. I hate it when he does that because he YELLS and I mean YELLS F*CK YOU! and I'll wake up and jump off the mattress terrified for my life LOL!!!


and he constantly grabs my butt... and i get really paranoid about it when my family is around. So those are my complaints.

his snoring
leaves lights on inthe middle of the night
leaves t.v. loud during sleeptime
watches discovery channel all day and night
drinks my juices when desperate
BUT LOVES THAT MAN!

yikes....i think I'M the annoying one in the relationship...
It's ME who leaves my clothes all over the place
It's ME who pinches his ass when he's walking up the stairs in front of me.
it's ME who leaves the dishes piled on the kitchen counter
and
It's ME who's desk it a pile of papers.
whoops.
all Mike does to "annoy" me is...
he likes the apt colder than I do
leaves his empty cigarette packs on top of the freezer.
that's all I can think of!!!  he's so good that he even puts the toliet see down!  
I'm a lucky gal!!!!!

@ mikeandmel
I totally agree... I'm the one with the bad habits apparently! Haha. My FH is really paranoid walking up stairs... he's always expecting me to grab his butt.

However, he does have some things that drive me crazy.
- He will never ever look for something himself, he always has to ask me where to find things.
- He wants to keep every beer/wine bottle he's ever drank and use it as a decoration on top of our kitchen cabinets. Eek!
- He takes the shampoo into a different bathroom and then of course I don't notice it is missing until I'm already in the shower.
But mostly he's adorable, so I don't mind. :D

Lol...This post is soo funny.....I'm gonna be the weird one here, but alot of the stuff you guys say you hate about the FH, I actually do to my FH...
I smack/pinch his butt whenever I'm around him.
I leave my dirty clothes on the floor in the bathroom
Sleep with the TV on all night
I'm a remote hogg...(even though we have two tvs)
I leave food in the sink(mainly because I know it gets on hisd nerves lol)

But the worst thing my FH does that annoys me, is:
-He leaves wett towels in the hamper
-Hes somewhat of a neat freak, but hardly ever cleans (if that makes sense)
-He talks in his sleep (like has entire conversations)
-Football season: He's impossible to live with, Its like im not even there

We are total opposites, but we love each other to death and balance eash other out!!

hehehe here we go

*he has the most annoying snore...i can handle normal snoring but his sounds like a tornadoe warning.

*he takes things out of my hands sometimes...he is now missing a couple fingers!

*he does the normal butt grabbing...but don't most guys??

*he talks about people i have never met and dont have a clue who they are and like i know them and confuses the heck out of me. like this......

MrT: "Jack was going on and on at work today about that house his daughter just bought and said he went by there the other day and it was fantastic."

ME: who the HELL is Jack????????

MrT: "oh, you don't now him....he works for a client of ours"

auuughhh why tell me about someone i dont know and will probably never know and i really dont care!

*leaves milk in his bowl on the counter...i do it too but he annoys me when he does it lol

*he never gives me  a straight up answer ...I would like to have his opinion...at least every now and then hehe

*when he says, i dont know, we'll talk about it later....why bring it up then?

Although my FH likes to vacuum and clean the kitchen he can't seem to keep the bedroom clean!!! lol he leaves his clothes he wears for the day all over the floor. He also leaves his shoes in the middle of the door way where I trip over them. It drives me nuts..I must teach him the wonderful uses of hangers lol

Oh how these have made my day. Too funny. Thanks for sharing ladies : )

* Goes for a peck kiss and sticks out his tongue right when he's pulling away
*Pulls all of the cover, but insist we sleep under the same one
*Cracks my knuckles (apparently he has done this since he was littlte)
*Has mayo on the corner of his mouth and when I tell him he says he is saving it for later
*Goes to get fast food at the same places all the time and always looks at the menu like he has never seen it before

Steals my towls
dosnt rinse his dishes
Hogs the bed
TV Control freak
Takes too long of showers
Snores
.....Just to name a few!!!

God Love my FH but he can get on my nerves!!!

1. I'm always waiting on HIM to get ready... Im always quick to get ready for going out.

2. He's addicted to pepsi

3. He slaps my ass at least 10 times a day... and it doesnt  matter who's around

4. sometimes he doesnt think before he speaks, so i have to jump in and save his ass

5. He will do a load of laundry... great? He mixes black, white, red, yellow, blue, green.. if its dirty he'll throw'er in... and load the washer so full you have to take half of them out and re do the loads because they didnt get cleaned properly.

LOL I love this question... its so funny to see the same responses. Here's mine..

- Leaves his dirty clothes on the bathroom floor
-Leaves food on the plate and put its right by the sink... uh hello the trash is right there throw it away and rinse the plate!!
-Plays video games ALL the time
-Washes his clothes but never mine!
-And we've all heard this one before... grabs my butt everytime we go up stairs. I hate it!! haha

lol this has cracked me up laughing! thanks girls for making me smile whilst as work!

My Man's annoying habits:
1. one rule for him, another for me! he can get away with things (well he thinks he can) but i cant!
2. He has some sort of problem where the washing machine repels him as he can only manage to put his clothes on the floor by the machine, and not in it!
3. He leaves drawers and cupboard doors open and i am going behind him slamming them shut! lol
4. Where he takes his clothes off- thats where they live (apparently) until i throw them in his bathroom and he has to deal with them!
5. drinking juice from the carton
6. snoring and talking in his sleep (mind u this makes me laugh so much i always wake him up!)
7. he has this amazing ability for wrecking his clothes lol - new shirt- wll stain it- new shoes- scuffed within 5 mins and new trousers? ripped or stained. Its like he is a lion tamer on the sly or something he comes home from work with wrecked clothes lol he is so clumsy with drinks and food- STAINS EVERYWHERE
8. His favourite answer to everything is 'We'll talk about it later' - he knows it infuriates me! because then he knows that a few hours later he will ask me what i wanted to talk about and i have forgotten it! duh

But of course these things make him who he is and i love him (and could kill him) in equal measures lol xxx

it's amazing but i can't think of anything! maybe he's just perfect....lol...O wait i just thought of one. I usually get home before he does so i will put on a show i want to watch but the second he walks in he changes the channel without even asking. Sometimes i will be watching tv and his friends will come over and he will immediatley turn on the video games without consulting me first. So i guess everything that has to do with the tv and him bugs me...LOL good thing i don't watch too much television! O i have another! When we decided to go garage selling i like to just jump in the car and go looking for them. He likes to look them up online and make a list in the order of where they are located and on what they are selling.....Drives me crazzzzzy!!!!

My FH is great and all, but man I do have some pet peeves

1) Makes lunch and leaves all trash on the counters all cabinets opened etc.
2) Leave his open soda cans all over the place
3) Leaves the Ranch/A1 Sauce out
4) Leaves his dirty clothes on the bathroom floor
5)If he's washing clothes in a hurry he will take clothes out of the dryer (that's still wet) and throw them on the couch,bed. or floor.
6) Leave wet tells on the bed or couch....
etc...
etc...
etc...

hahaha you guys got the point.

All men get on our nervous - The honest truth is ....
You can't live with them and You can't live without them.
So keep what you have and work with it!   : - >

Wow... Where do I begin?

-He kicks off his shoes when he comes in the door, and thats where they stay til I pick them up. The man wears a size 14, I could break my neck!!
-He is considerate enough to load the dishwasher, but he doesn't put any kind of organizational thought to it, I'm always rearranging behind him.
-He washes clothes, and moves them over to the dryer, but he always has to leave for work, or something else comes up soon after, so by the time I have time to fold them, they're wrinkled and I have to dry them some more!
-He texts me from the next room! Really, now?
-My biggest problem::: he thinks mommy's a damn SAINT. Boy is he wrong!

I guess I can't complain much, he DOES help with chores, he did move out of his mom's house to live with me. Overall, he's just right for me. :)

-Ashley