I know before wedding day comes, some brides may get cold feet or whatever. Its just nerves. But I never realized how many nightmares a bride-to-be would have! Does this mean that I am tooo controlling about the flow and look of the days events, that I can't even let go in my subconsious? I know not ALL brides have nightmares, but last night I had another one and its really starting to wear me out. They all started within the "90 days to wedding" timeframe. Hitting those double digits really did something to me! LOL
First dream- After the ceremony, there was NO food, drinks, tables or chairs... it was in a weird old store with tons of antique dresses on mannequins standing everywhere. All people could do was get a drink from the water fountain and walk around looking at the old dresses.
Second dream- we didnt get the marriage license, so the officient wouldnt even marry us in a symbolic ceremony. People go up and started to leave. The reception had basically 5 people in attendance.
Third dream- For some reason, I didnt have my dress ltered, or it was missing or something. We found this out right before I was to put it on and walk down the aisle. We ran to a nearby store and bought a dress and veil. The dress was soooo tacky with red all over it (not like the normal wedding dresses you see with touches of red), and the only veil was a black widow's birdcage veil.
Fourth dream- (in real life) yesterday I got a notice that I had a package at the post office to be picked up. Instead of immediately going there (i had tons to do yesterday), I said Ill pick it up tomorrow. I know it is my veil. Well, in my dream I had never picked up the package and had no veil. The lack of a veil isntl a big deal, but of course it is one more thing to stress me out!
Sooooo.... what have your nightmares been? So far I havent dreamed of my groom not showing up thank goodness! LOL who knows though, I still have 62 more nights of dreams coming my way.
We're all not alone. I've had a few. One last night also, that was much like tiggre99. It was like, all of a sudden my wedding was 5 minutes away. My hair wasn't done, no makeup, my garter, my tiara, veil, everything was back at the hotel. The music being played wasn't anything I had chose.
Argh!!!!!!!!!! I hate the dreams.