mom2vanitysmurf's Green wedding

I've been trying on and looking for dresses for a year and a half now. I thought I had found one at David's Bridal that was colorful, a-line, and figre flattering. However, after branching out and realizing that there are more bridal shops out there, I think I have changed my mind.

I can't find what I really want. The closest I am coming is this first dress. I want it to have cap sleeves, am empire waist, a low scoop style neckline, and lace that seperates at the empire waist line. (all of which this dress has) The only thing I want differently from this dress is for it to flare out more on the sides and in the front and not hug my not size 2 body. I want it to be more Grecian style. I want it to look very romantic and feminine and have a style like something you'd see in a costume movie from the 1860's. I' ve searched and searched. If you have any idea of how to find what I'm looking for, lemme know.

I picked out the second dress because it's simple in the front and the back has that old style I'm looking for. I really like the back but I'm not sure that it's the one either.,

While I'm deciding, feel free to check out my line up of the different styles I'm looking at and tell me what you think.