Thanks to another bride on here i was able to score all 8 of my bridesmaids these necklaces on eb...
I am so upset. Saturday was my bridal shower and on Tuesday my best friend and MOH messaged me and said she felt she was ignored at the party. I have no idea where this coming from because I tried my best to spend equal time with all my guests and make everyone feel comfortable.
Right now, my MOH is unemployed and has not been able to help financially with anything for the bridal shower, which I completely understand. But besides that she has been extremely uncooperative when it comes to helping plan anything for the wedding itself. Anytime I tried to get together with her it took forever for her to settle on a single excuse on why she couldn't come out. I actually got her to meet with us on one occasion but then heard very little from her after that.
She hasn't met with us since then to help plan anything. She didn't even help my mom and bridesmaid help plan for the bridal shower.
At the bridal shower my mom mentioned a bachelorette party to my MOH and she has flipped out about it... saying she has no money to throw a party (when at the same time she's able to take road trips, buy expensive clothing and go to the movies on her unemployment check).
At the end of the message to me she told me thought it was best that I replace her in the wedding.
And all this with only 44 days left till the ceremony!!!!!
This girl was supposed to be my best friend. We've known each other since 7th grade and we're practically sisters during highschool (we lived two doors down from each other). I am so hurt, I just don't know what to do.
The other thing I'm upset about is that another friend of hers, who I also knew from high school, is getting married the weekend before me. She stills lives around the corner from my EX-MOH. My so-called best friend has been so involved in her wedding and has been posting all kinds of comments about it on her facebook. Yesterday she even went to her page and posted about how much she appreciated having her as a friend.
I feel so slighted and abused. What happened to our friendship? Am I being a bridezilla about this? I'm not sure how to feel about the situation or what to really say to her. Do I just tell her it's ok? I feel like telling her not to talk to me ever again (though I know that's extreme), but I just don't want to have to keep dealing with her when all she does is hurt me. :(