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04/09/2010
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Wedding
My dream wedding!!!
BIG BIG BIG changes to our dream wedding!
The new plans are we are ELOPING to a local chapel and have a private wedding ceremony with just us. No guest and no complaints.... So excited we are getting married on Monday April 12th..... Why did we do this? Well we are expecting our 2nd child in May so the family is planning a baby shower and of course I had to get the guestlist together for them. Well my family and friends are acting "special" and call me about everything etc......Tickets, hotels, why this and why that, how to get here by plane or bus! Well I just don't have the patience at this point in my life to deal with this for a wedding. My shower list was only 30 people long but it felt like 100. So I know having a wedding they would drive me crazy. So to keep my blood pressure down and to prevent me from growing gray hair this is what we planned to do and I can't be more excited. This is my DREAM WEDDING! MARRYING THE MAN OF MY DREAMS!!!!!!!!!! SO LOVING IT!!!!!!!! Remember brides the wedding is only one day but the marriage is for a life time, so stop letting everything stress you and making you crazy! Enjoy the day b/c the most important part is only about 20 min....the rest is just a celebration of the first 20 mins! Will post pictures next week! |
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03/16/2010
 Happy Birthday |
NWR: It's my birthday!
Today is my
Hey Ladies,
Today is my 2?th birthday! So I will do a half a day at work and go out to dinner late. No partying this year due to having the baby in May. Oh and by the way I will have the baby (c-section) May 19th so excited. My future SIL and aunt planned my baby shower for April 24th and that is a surprise so I can't wait.....FH is up to something just texted me and said it cost him $75 dollars on a car wash........ |
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03/05/2010
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Wedding Rings And Jewelry
FH Ring and gifts
My FH loves jewerly but everything has to match lol. IF he gets a ring he wants a new watch and bracelet and etc...to go with it! So here are some of the things that I picked out for him! Which ring do you like better? I know the watch is a little darker but it will still look good together right?
What do you thinks? |
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02/24/2010
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Managing money after the wedding!
What's your is mine and what mine is mine! Is that what you go by?
So now that your married and living in the same household what do you do with the money???? Who manages the money better? What is the best way to manage the money? Do you get a joint account or do you just keep your own accounts? Do you pay your bills or do the bills become ours? Does his money go to bills and your is to do what you like? They said one of the main reasons for divorce is money right so what is the best way to manage it? Do you guys talk about how much money you make on the job or is that not any of his/her business? Just some questions that came to mind! What do you think? |
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02/09/2010
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Wedding Reception
What's a girl to do?
So we are working on a tight budget! I have fould some great venues to have the wedding and reception. I have also found some great intimate wedding packages! So we are due to have a baby in May and we talked about getting married in August instead of Sept which is fine with me I just want to be married!
Now my problem is i'm really a bargain shopping and can plan this wedding right but I don't feel like it! I don't have the drive and energy! I just want to get married and get it over with let someone else clean the hall and put the food away! LOL you know what I mean I don't want to do all that work right now. Not that I'm lazy but just don't have the drive I guess! I just don't want to regret anything! What's a girl to do? The budget wedding or the intimate wedding and get it over with! I'm really sick of working my brain to finds way to save! It's draining me along with the baby LOL! My fiancee does not want a big fancy wedding. He really will like a casual relaxed wedding he said we can have the reception at GOLDEN CORRAL LOL JOKE THAT WILL NOT HAPPEN! |
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01/29/2010
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10 Reasons he not the one!
Great Read!
This is not just for women; Pass it on
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/relationships/24421/dating-tips-10-signs-hes-not-the-one/ 10 signs that may indicate he's not for you. Some people say they "just knew" that they were dating their future spouse. But what about the rest of us? What happens when you're not sure if he's The One? If you're considering long-term commitment or marriage, it's time to ask yourself some tough questions. Below, 10 signs that may indicate he's not for you. 1. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wants your relationship to work. If you're fixating on his flaws, he's either not the one you want or you're not ready for a serious relationship. Cutting him loose allows you time to grow and gives you the opportunity to meet a guy whose flaws you can embrace -- or at least accept. 2. You don't trust him. A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you're hacking into his email account, and going berserk when he goes out without you, something's wrong. If there's something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he's not the right one for you. 3. You avoid conflict at any cost. Fighting is healthy. And, when done right (in the non-accusatory, rational sort of way), it can be a great way to air grievances, fix problems in your relationship, and come to a deeper understanding of each other. Ignoring problems is not the same as having no problems at all... even if it looks that way. 4. When you're sad, you don't turn to him for comfort. When you're a giant ball of tears and snot, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he can't see you at your worst? If you're worried about scaring him away, one of you isn't ready for total commitment. Mr. Right should make you smile through your tears and be a calming, not stressful, presence. 5. One of you is struggling with an addiction. He's sweet. He's exciting. He loves you very much. But he loves his alcohol habit or his weekly gambling fix more. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you can change him or that your relationship will be strong enough to withstand the heartache that addiction will inevitably bring. An addict may be able to change, but he'll do so on his own terms. 6. You can't really imagine him as the father of your children. Ask yourself: Would he make a great parent? Is he financially responsible? Would he be an equal partner in your future together? If you have doubts, he's probably not the one. 7. Your long-term, non-negotiable goals in life are incompatible. You want kids; he doesn't. You go to church every week; he's an atheist. He lives in the country and doesn't want to move; you can't imagine ever leaving the city. Superficial differences can be overcome, but differences in basic values are harder to smooth over. Ask yourself: "Would I be willing to compromise on this?" If the answer is absolutely not, you may not be right for each other. 8. You don't respect each other. He puts you down in front of your friends and complains about you to his parents. You roll your eyes when he talks because there's just something about him that embarrasses you. A relationship without respect can't sustain itself. 9. You're not attracted to him. Physical intimacy is a hugely important component of a romantic relationship. If he doesn't do it for you, he's probably not your best long-term match. 10. On paper he seems great, but you have this strange feeling... Don't ignore your gut. You may get along on a superficial level, but if your instincts are telling you he's not the one for you, listen. That little voice inside your head does not lie. |
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01/27/2010
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What are some of the crazy questions.......
Do people ask you crazy question or make crazy suggestions about your wedding?
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01/19/2010
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What is the best way to go?
I need some advice! Sorry so long just needed to vent!
I have always dreamed of this nice wedding not to big not to small right! I want the wedding dress, reception, DJ, Photos, Kids table and etc..... but I moved to Atlanta about 6 yrs ago and met the man of my dreams! He comes from a very small family and my family is fairly large. We will have two kids by the time we get married so I wanted to keep the wedding in Atlanta. I kbow if I have the wedding in my hometown the list will be 100+ b/c of people from the church, family and friends. If I have the wedding in Atlanta it will be more like 65 or less. OK we all know our family..... so my question is do I plan the wedding for 100+ and pray my family will travel to from Mass to Atlanta or do I just have the smaller more romantic wedding with the smaller guest list? I can buy and send out 100+ invites and hope and pray they can make it or I can invite who I know for sure will come and keep in simple. Not saying my family will not want to come but with the drive it will be over 18 hrs, they have kids so plan tickets will be expensive..... Sometimes I want a small romantic wedding and then sometimes I want a bigger wedding! We will be paying for the wedding out of pocket so I know what we can afford now but we can always keep saving LOL! The original wedding budget savings are half gone at this time due the doctor fees we are paying due to change in insurance at my job. Maybe its just me looking at others wedding LOL and getting to many ideas in my head! Things I must have at my wedding are me in a wedding dress, pictures, cake, my children and MAN! So I was thinking a small wedding with people we must have there and go out to dinner..... or a very small reception. I can always party! What do you think? |
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01/13/2010
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NWR: Please pray for Haiti
The quake that hit Haiti......
Please pray for the families and vitims of the quake in Haiti! It was a lot of people that lost thier lives and are still lost in piles. I send my prays and well wishes to Haitians! So sad, please pray for the people.
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12/31/2009
 Cake 1 Cake 2 Cake 3 Cake 4 Cake 5 Cake 6       |
Wedding Cake
My wedding cake list!
Here are some cakes that I like which one is favorite?
Cake 1 is my favorite! I would not need anything that big but I love the cake anyway! Cake 2 I love but I wonder how the black will taste! Cake 3 is really little and simple! Cake 4 is blinged out really love that idea! Cake 5 same as 3 little and simple! Cake 5 is another favorite! Just look at it! |
momo83
| 3 | years since wedding |
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Apr 2010
Atlanta,
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United States
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My wedding is simple and private. Just the bride and groom.....no guest needed! We are just going to do it! No stress and saving a lot of money!
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