Wedding Planner

Surprise! We're getting married!!!

Pssst.... wanna know a secret? Im getting married in three months! But don't tell anyone, they think it's just the engagement party!

Lol yep that's right! FH and I just found out that we are pregnant with #3 despite me having an IUD! Soon as we left my doctor we decided that we must get married before I deliver. I'm about 8 weeks along and due in February. We know exactly when it happened, one day before his father died and about a week and a half before my IUD was placed. I was a bit upset and scared at first but I feel like this must be his father, especially since he wanted us to have alot of children and even asked after we had Milo in April when were we gonna finally give him a girl. So i'm praying that this is his girl!

So now I have to plan an engagement party/wedding in 3 months!! Right now I'm trying to decide who really needs to know so we are sure that they will attend. Im debating on telling our entire bridal party. I say we just tell our maid of honor and best man. The rest will more than likely show up b/c they always show up for any party we throw. The only thing is I would like for the girls to wear their own little black dresses and the guys wear black slacks and a white shirt. I plan on having purple sashes and ties at the place waiting for them. We would also need to tell his mother since she is moving back to Kentucky in 2 weeks (plus i want her to have something to look forward too!) And my father since he lives in California.

Everyone else would not know a thing, my mother included! LOL

I'm very excited, happy, scared, confused and elated all at the same time. Right now I'm in super plan mode and trying to just get a list of everything I need to take care of.

We still have to figure out:
Guest list
Food
photography
videography
favors
invitations
centerpieces
linens
chairs/tables
officiant
flowers
music
rings
vows
dress/tux
sashes for bridesmaids
ties for groomsmen


It feels like so much and i'm pretty sure i'm forgetting something. We already have the venue figured out, jsut have to go give her the deposit and we already planned a trip to Montreal in October for my birthday. we're just going to extend it by 2 days so that will be our honeymoon.

Any of you guys ever attended a surprise wedding???

Whew! Lol sorry for the long read!!!