Speaking of being SO. OVER. IT, a lot of extra stress has also come from my beloved bridal party. Here are some of the things Ive had to deal with, recently:
1) My MOH has been calling me daily for the past week, complaining that the other girls have put down every idea she brings up for my bridal shower/bachelorette party. I understand that I sucks, but theres nothing I can do about it, yknow?
2) 2 of my bridesmaids (my sisters) spend $ partying, and on social stuff, but are now having a hard time finding $ for deposits on their dresses (which I told them--everyone--months ago that I wanted done by next Friday--Feb. 10th)
3) Another one of my bridesmaids has put off putting her deposit down because she's been looking for the cheapest place to get it. She also makes excuses for not coming to other appointments, like when we found the dresses in the first place.
4) My sisters are now on bad terms with my mother, and have warned me about inviting her to the wedding (I'm already on bad terms with her--we've never been close), but I want to invite her, as she's my mother..
Basically the only person in my party who has made a deposit on her dress is my MOH. The aforementioned bridesmaid in #3 swears shell have her deposit made in time, as do 2 of my other girls (they have appointments in the coming week), but Im very, very worried about my sisters being able to swing it. Part of me wants to make the deposits for them, and have them pay me back when theyre able to, but my smart side says, WTF, crazy lady? Theyll never pay you back, OR pay the remainder when the dresses come in, so cut them out, and be done with it.
Really, they were only added as BMs because I thought theyd get mad with my cousin being a BM, and I know for a fact theyre super unreliable, but my sister side feels bad.
They knew the terms, though.
Maybe Ill give them to the end of the month?
GRRRRR! Things should be easier than this.
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mrshtobe said...