This is mrsli2b's Red Wedding!

Okay So I was enchanted to find a pink cherry blossom them but I realized that i do not want to change my colors yet again....So I decided with the hunni of course to do a red cherry blossom them. I found it is way easier to find the asian accents with that as the theme. I think I am taking out the damask and just using white table clothes with a cherry red runner or should I keep the damask and add the cherry blossom theme. I am thinking the second one is over kill.

Well here we are again changing the date. I am praying that this is the last time we have to change the date . we now have 17 months to get everything right. I am disappointed but it is for the best and it will be okay and at least we won't have to rush now and can afford to do it the way we want it.

We are having our ceremony and reception in the same place. So i decided to look for wedding reception floor plans that would allows us comfortably have the wedding in the same place. I found this one from a wedding setup site they had one for 75 ,150 , 250 and more people i of course chose this one to show my helpers on our wedding day how i want it set up. so what are you ladies doing for your floor layout if you are having the ceremony and reception all in one room.

I admit it I am a fan of the Twilight series. So when I saw these online photos of Bella's dress, my mouth dropped. Is this dress not stunning. I mean you have sexy elegent and chic all rolled into one. The shoes are Manolo's and equally stunning. The dress was designed by Caroligna Herrera. She plans to sell the dress in her 2012 collection. Alfred Angelo already sells a replica of the dress. What do you think? Stunning or too understated? The dress Orignal is said to be worth $35.000 while AA sells it for roughly 800.00.

I originally had my heart set on DB's Marabelle shoe but my FH is not as tall as I am so i needed to go with a lower heel. Well when i went to try on dresses, My consultant actually showed me these shoes and when i tried them on they were perfect and comfortable. I have been perusing the internet looking for deals on the shoe but alas have not found them. So i will be paying the $49 for these. I am then going to have them died Apple Red (Dark Red) to match the trim in my dress. Since they are comfortable i won't be changing them at the Recept. I am also adding a little shoe bling. to the part of the shoe. i think i may do a heart. What do you ladies think?

Brooch 9.00
Shellie Shoe $49.00
Dye fee ? TBD

Since I am wearing my hair in a curly bob, I decided to not have a veil and wear this pretty comb in my hair. The second one is for the reception and The third are for my attendants. I really like them. They weren't too expensive and my ladies can wear them again.

I am like, over the moon happy i found this UNBELIEVABLE Bridal Jewelry Sets. The best part is they are only 7.99 ea plus free shipping. Can we say major score.

Question the first two are what i am considering to wear with my dress see earlier post? Which do you lovely ladies think i should wear? The first pic or the second.

The tourth is the set i am getting for all of my laddies. MOH's will have a different bracelet from bridesmaids and the last is the pin they will use to accent their dresses. Okay off to find more bargains.

Necklace Sets 7.99
Heart Bracelet 35.00
Brooches $9.00



The third set is for the reception. The heart bracelet is a nod to my last name (Harte) and the feather set is (nod) to my Native American heritage)

The Bracelet is from emitations: it is a little pricey but worth it:)

I knew that i wanted to give something beautiful to my god daughter Terriyah so i chose these beautiful pattern for her flower girl dress which she can wear over and over again. I am handmaking it and i am making her jewelry too. She will be two by the time of the wedding. The band will be black trimmed in red the sockes,clips and corsage will be the same. The jewelry is swarovski cyrstal cubes that will sparkle and dance on her't neck and and arm. I can't wait to see her in it. Hopefully she won't steal the show lol but it is okay if she does.

Yesterday htb and i got into a huge arguement about fiances. He called off the wedding in the heat of the moment. I was hurt because we had never done this before and now here we are arguing. I HATE arguing. Well today we sat down and talked after he had emailed me to say that he was sorry and that He loves me , but we need a better commuication system. We have an appointment scheduled for pre maritial couseling with our pastor. WE need it since sometimes we can be a little sharp with our words with each other when we are upset. I love this man so much he really is a good man. I know every couple has their issues but if their is one thing i want to stress it is that communication be honest but loving. There is a difference in being truthful and sometimes the fact of the truth will hurt and being hurtful because you can or lack self control. iam glad we reconize our issue with each other. Does it change our love no.. it just means that we are human. To all the brides here keep your communication open and keep it loving. Breakups are expensive, married or not. Keep us in your prayers. We still love each other we just needed to really sit down and talk.

Update: He stated he still wants to get married, i've decided that friendship and love that we have built up over the years is worth fighting for. so the wedding is back on ... hopefully for good Keep us in your prayers. Please Goal (ALTER) Smile. sometime you just need to fight for what is good in your relationship.

Hi ladies,after all the planning and i en put my dress in the lay away. He called off the wedding yesterday. so my plans as of right now are to find a place of my own and let myself healt. Ithought we were meant to be but we are not. Remember what's imporatand when wedding and that is you two's love. ( tears falling) I wish everyone here a happy and loving marriage. don't stress the details....Bye everyone:) Since this was going to be my third marriage i really don't think i will be getting married to anyone anymore hurts too much ...