So I finally bought my guest sign in book, and personalized napkins. I bought white napkins with black foil writing, and also black napkins with white foil writing to give it a different look.
I also purchased a memorial candle for my mother, but it hasn't come yet so I need to look into that..I decided to have a special table with a large picture of my mom, a pretty personalized candle, and also my bouquet will be resting there until it's tossed. I'm not trying to make a memorial service out of it, but I do feel like she is missing BIG TIME!
The book and pen can be found on e bay, and the napkins on the knot.
UPDATE:
I RECEIVED THE MEMORIAL CANDLE AND IT'S LOVELY.
I also purchased these damask beverage napkins to add a little more flare to my theme.