Im leaning toward something like this for my hair. I originally planned on having my hair up for the ceremony & down for the reception. But the way i sweat (my wedding is outside, in the middle of summer, in Louisiana) it's best to have it out of my face and off of my shoulders and back. I love the volume at the top!! I have 2 headpieces, 3 if u count the one i jus ordered, so i'll have to figure out which one works best.