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12/12/2008
me
me
  
I am Graduating Tomorrow!
Yay me!! I am a college grad!
Okay, so this semester has been hecked. but nevertheless, it will all be worth it when I walk across that stage on tomorrow. Trying to plan this wedding, trying to graduate, and trying to eat right as been a struggle. however, hopefully, now I get a break from school even if for a month, so I can focus on me and my BIG day. I am soooooo happy right not. I am extremely proud of my self. I end my undergrad college career with a 3.0! I made it. I get to close this chapter and move on to the next! I am not absolutely sure what is next, but I am definately looking foward to see. WoW.... I'm be back later tomorrow to post pictures from my big day!!!!! =)

any other college grads? any college students? When is your expected graduation date??
12/11/2008
mev
mev
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mevChocolate Snow in the BIG EAZY Can you believe it is snowing in New Orleans?
  
Snow in the BIG EAZY
Can you believe it is snowing in New Orleans?
It is snowing in New Orleans. last time it snowed it was in 2004 on Christmas day. this is so exciting for s because we hardly ever see snow. It just put me in the holiday spirit. I am sooo ready for Christmas NOW!
12/10/2008
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fatty
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fattyChocolate I lost 100lbs! How I lost a 100lbs
  
I lost 100lbs!
How I lost a 100lbs
My story:
I went to the doctor for a regular check up maybe Aug. 2006 and the scale said 278. I was so shocked because I knew I was big, but I did not know I was a hamburger a way from 300. I was not sure how to lose weight and stick to it. I have always been the person to lose 5 and gain 10 y'all know what I mean. I did not want to do anything drastic with out researching a good diet plan. Until I figured it out, I cut back on fast-food and cold drinks (soda). I ate a little bit more fruit, but I was not on a diet. I ate less because I did not want to gain any more weight. I did not really start a work out plan. I would just take the 3 flight of stairs at the library, park my car at the end of any parking lot, and walk around Wal-Mart about 3times.

Anyway, I went back to the doctor about 4- 5 months later and the scale said 274, and I was like how the hell did that happen? I did not even really try, so I said to myself maybe I could do this. I came to the conclusion that I would have to make my own diet plan because I did not really want it to just be a diet; I wanted it to be a life change. Majority of all the diet plans are only for short term, and my goal is long term. I am terrified of diet pills, so I don’t take them.
I researched stuff on nutrition. I have a big huge book that I created with tips in it about losing weight, eating healthy and exercising. There is so much good information in it. I have learned how to eat and what to eat, and I am still learning.

Anyway, I got serious around May 2007. I started a workout plan everyday walking on the treadmill for about 30 minutes. I did the bike for about 30 minutes, and I would lift weights about 20 minutes. I cut OUT all fast-food and cold drinks. Then, I doubled my work outs to about two times a day and within a week and a half I lost about 15 pounds. Of course, the weight slowed down; nevertheless, I started to really focus on my food intake.

As of now, I am really trying to stay in my range, and I (try) to workout five times a week for an hour, and I strength train (at least I try) twice a week. I also (try) to do a hundred crunches on my ball everyday.My main goal RIGHT NOW is not to gain weight. I have so much school work that it is hard for me to focus on losing weight right now, so my focus is NOT to GAIN any weight!

Before I joined sparks, I lost 68 on my own. Since sparks I have lost 32 lbs, all together I lost 100lbs, and I have made my first goal of 178. I love sparks, and I can not imagine myself without it… I tell everybody about sparks!

My first weight loss goal is 178 which would be 100lbs since I started. I have completed that goal. Now, I am trying to complete my weight loss goal number 2 which is 154 the healthy weight range. After that goal, I will try to reach my final weight loss goal of 148. All together that would be a weight loss of 130 which is another person!!

I have lost a hundred but I have twenty more to go for the wedding. I have been struggling these last couple of weeks because it is my last semester in school and school was extremely difficult....but hey it is all over now!.Anywho, I am getting back on track ....Sunday Dec. 14. I will be starting over and refocsing...


Okay. I decide to share this. I hope it helps others.

For complete details check out My Weighloss blog on
http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage.asp




Anyone else losing for the wedding? How much do you plan on losing and what are your doing?
12/06/2008
logo
logo
  
Wedding Dress
...Found name of dress
http://www.pronovias.com/

I found out the name of the designer of my dress..it's pronovias.. It looks different on the internet than in person.
The name of this dress is Hebra

anybody else using this designer??
12/02/2008
Eleanor
Eleanor
  
Ask a Question
Bridal gowns off Internet?!
Would you buy a gown off the internet? I am starting to think I would.
Have anyone considered buying from http://www.bestbridalprices.com/bridalveils.php
They have every gown you could think of. The shipping is included, and there is a sale going on where they are giving away shoes and veils for selected gowns.


This sounds tooo good to be true! & my mom always says when it seems to good to be true, it usually is.. right? I don't know... lol
However, I am thinking I am going to go in store and try on and get my measurements, and size and order off line... I'm thinking, but I'm not sure.. How do ya'lll feel about this?
12/02/2008
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Wedding Photography
Wedding pictures big deal...
Okay, Me & my hubby have been looking at photographers...I am in l o v e with this man.. He is a little expensive, but not the most expensive.. I have seen packages up to $6000. he is about 2400... Well anyway.,,I want to book him! He does almost everything I want! His pictures are Beau-tiful! he has a phot blog and everything..
He does
engagement sessions
preparation sessions
wedding day sessions
& post wedding sessions

check out & tell me is he worth it!!!
http://www.daviddstudio.com/index2.php
12/01/2008
me no sash
me no sash
alden sis.. with sash
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me no sashalden sis.. with sashChocolate Bridesmaids what do ya'll think?too plain?Chocolate Bridesmaids what do ya'll think?too plain?Chocolate Bridesmaids what do ya'll think?too plain?Chocolate Bridesmaids what do ya'll think?too plain?
  
Bridesmaids
what do ya'll think?too plain?
found my BM dresses.. I love the plain look, but my mom doesn't so we agreed to do a sash with a brouch... they only had black in my BM dresses, but they will be champagne with champagne sash with gold broch... not sure on shoes yet...

I'm loving this! =)

** it's the same dress, but my bra straps are thicker which I am geting the straps the size of my bra straps.

***Update
I got the down payment on the dresses. SHould be here in three months. Soooo excited!!
12/01/2008
Dress #2
Dress #2
dress #3
dress #4
Dress #2dress #3dress #4
  
Wedding Dress
Loved trying dresses on now tell me what you think!
So I tried on wedding dresses FINALLY! My Fi actually came with me.. It was me, him, my mom, my sister, and his sister... Bad luck? Maybe... however, I tried on many so he doesn't know which one I am going to choose...however he loves #1!
I love love dress #1!! I want it!.. it was first one I tried on... and I fell in love..
Dress #1
I felt like my favie beyonce.
I am completely in love with...

Dress 2
I felt like princess
loved color

Dress 3
I like, but not love

Dress 4
Liked, but not inlove with

What ya'll think?? which one ya'll like?

*** so I took my dress down....I don't think it is a good idea to post it....
12/01/2008
Bee & Jay #1
Bee & Jay #1
Ashanti & Nelly #2
janet & dupri #3
brad & Angie #4
Mariah-Carey-and-Nick-Cannon- #5
katie_tom #6
nas & kelis #7
Paris-Hilton-Benji-#8
Nicole & Joe #9
Barack & Michelle #10
Will & jada #11
TonyRomo&JessicaSimpson
JohnMayer&JenniferAniston
BenAffleck&JenniferGarner
HeidiMontag&SpencerPratt
Bee & Jay #1Ashanti & Nelly #2janet & dupri #3brad & Angie #4Mariah-Carey-and-Nick-Cannon- #5katie_tom #6nas & kelis #7Paris-Hilton-Benji-#8Nicole & Joe #9Barack & Michelle #10Will & jada #11TonyRomo&JessicaSimpsonJohnMayer&JenniferAnistonBenAffleck&JenniferGarnerHeidiMontag&SpencerPrattChocolate Ask a Question Which celebrity couple are you & your mate?
  
Ask a Question
Which celebrity couple are you & your mate?
Which CC are you and your mate similuar to or which is your favorite?
I think me & my FI is similar to bee and jay! =) He thinks Will & jade..

My favorite
Bee & Jay
Nas&Kelis
Michelle&Barack
Will & Jada
11/29/2008
back than... fatty lol
back than... "fatty" lol
  
Wedding Video
Flaws & all 2yrs...
If I look different ,it's because I was a hundred pounds heavier...





I made this for our 2 year anniversary! This just one part of it.. this the raw footage. I actually created affects to it...This is at the beginning. I made a anniversary dvd.. it is about 30mins long. It's a collection of videos, music, video diary enteries, & photos... it's really nice...

msvalencia

4 years since wedding
Valencia
Alden
Jun 14, 2009
New Orleans, Louisiana, United States
Mt. Hermon Baptist Church
The Balcony Reception Hall
Tabby
Chocolate
I love my hubby, and I can not wait to marry him. Wedding Colors: Champagne, Ivory, & chocolate Accent colors:Cream&Gold Our Wedding Website Check it out!
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