I just read that the "traditional" method for choosing the number of bridesmaids is one bridesmaid for every 35-50 guests. So THIS is where the feelings of "too many bridesmaids" comes from! I guess by that calculation, I would have 210-300 guests since I have 6 ladies in my wedding party.
Of course we will more realistically have 65-75 people at the wedding so that is pretty off base. And I guess I could've had only one or two ladies in the wedding, but first off, I love all of my bridesmaids and couldn't imagine not having any of them stand with me and secondly, I don't actually care about "tradition." :-)
-Red the Bride