FREAKING OUT - venting - MYISSHA's Red Wedding by Color Blog

HI LADIES.....I'M KINDA IN PANICK MODE B/C I FEEL LIKE I'M SO BEHIND WITH SO MUCH WHICH I MAY ONLY BE OVER REACTING.
MY MOM HELPS ME 100% BUT MY BM ARE ONLY FOCUSING ON THE BRIDAL SHOWER(I GUEST)....I AM GRATEFUL FOR THAT BUT I WOULD LIKE MORE HELP WITH THE WEDDING PLANNING TOO...MY FH HAS BEEN NO HELP WHAT-SO-EVER....AND EVERYTIME I BRING IT UP HE SAYS "WELL WHAT AM I NOT HELPING WITH"

IM JUS SO FRUSTRATED RIGHT NOW I FALL ASLEEP ONLINE SEARCHING FOR THE PERFECT ITEMS FOR A PERFECT WEDDING.....UGGGHHHHHHH........IM SO READY FOR MY HONEYMOON

i feel the exact same way!!! There is sooo much to do i dont even know where to start at this point!!! My mom n grandmother r the only ones really helping...i havnt even talked to some of my bridesmaids since asking them to b in the wedding!! Isnt their job to help us n make it less stressful??!

I'm less then 2 months away. My mom hasn't helped with anything (is refusing to even come) and my bridesmaids haven't done anything to do with the planning at all. I was hoping for a little help with a few crafty DIY things but it isn't going to happen. (Sometimes the FH will cut things out for me but even that is iffy)

I wish everyone else was as excited as me but they aren't. If things don't get done then they don't. Not much I can do about it and I refuse to let this wedding stress me out.

I have given my bridesmaids little jobs. They are all very artsy - one is in charge of my cake topper, one my guestbook, one my garter, etc etc. I think it will make everything more personal and meaningful to me - and a fun surprise to see what they come up with.

I think that this must be normal because I felt exactly the same way at the 6 month mark. Hopefully things will turn around for you and you're wedding party will pull through. Mine did but literally not til the last month :(

awww ladies.....thanks for your posts....at least I know I'm not by myself....i don't wanna feel like I'm bothering anyone to help me...i would rather them volunteer or jus pop up and say hi I'm here to help....yes it is there job (bridesMAID)...lol....but angb13 I would prolly b extremely hurt if my mom was acting how yours is towards you with 2mo left God will make a way to see you through it :-) and 'soconfused' I guess it's human nature to jus be last minute hah....lol again

With over 200 days left before your wedding day, believe me you have time. Take a moment to breathe and jot down step by step wedding plan. Each time you achieve a goal from the plan list cross it off and move to the next. I did this and it worked for me.

myissha said...

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i love these...wish i could find me some

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personally i like da gold ones....that way you could wear gold accessories plus i jus like them better

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thanx....i kinda figured it wasnt gonna b perfect lik hers

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