This is nluckey's Yellow Wedding!

So this morning my mom sent me an email with the video of this wedding of the Bride and Groom's first dance. It started out like an average dance but 30 seconds into the music they broke out in to this funny routine. They choreographed a dance, it was too cute. My mom asked me if my fiance and I will be doing one... I don't think my fiance will do anything like that. He's a little shy when it comes to being in front of A LOT of people especially dancing! LOL He's funny! What about y'all... choreographed first dance or average first dance???

It seems like everytime I make up my mind about something, I change it the next moment. I just can't seem to put things in stone. The only thing that is in stone is the Bridal Shower location and that's b/c my MOH is in charge of that. How many you are are the same way???

If you read the post below this one, you will have the background info about my situation. Well my cousin, who has major attitude problems, has not said anything to me or my family for 1 week and a half. She and her mother used to call my home everyday. Now, we have to call them, only to get the voicemail, to see how they're doing. I am very organized and I like things done in order and fair. About 3 weeks ago I sent all of my BMs an email telling what's expected and if they accept the position. I have recieved responses from all of them except my cousin! When I saw her, I told her that she needs to let me know something. Instead, she critisizes my plans and goes do davids bridal without me, the bride! So, I have sent out another email letting all BMs know that if they dont respond by Friday, then they'll be replaced. I wanted it to look fair... I honestly don't want her in my wedding and truly regret putting her in it. All of the othe BMs a re positive ladies and she's the only "bad seed" I don't want her negativity to ruin my day! So if she doesn't respond by Friday, she's getting the boot! Am I wrong my this??? What do you think, honestly???

Okay, my wedding party is big. My favorite number in 7 so I decided to have 7 BM and 7 GM. I also want 2 FG and 1 RB. My guests will total apprx. 75 people ( not including the wedding party).. I have been thinkin that my wedding party might be too big. What do you think?????

When I was doing my research on DB's website, i came across a beautiful tube topped dress. When I went to DB they only had the halter version of the dress. My mom thinks that the halter is more elegant but I wanted to tube topped dress... what do you think????

Okay, so My MOH has been on her game FOR REAL!! She's picked out the bridal shower location and it's gorgeous. It also fits my theme... A DAY AT THE SPA!!! Im sooooo happy!

Okay, so I am a nice person and I don't like to exclude people. I added my cousin(who I've known for about 2 years) to my wedding party b/c she really wanted to be in it (bad choice). She and my aunt have been planning my wedding like it's their wedding. Once again, Im a nice peron and I am open to ideas. i will take them in but it doesn't mean that I will use the ideas. They are finalizing plans for my wedding without asking me. For instance, they asked someone to be my wedding planner ( I haven't even seen their portfolio)!! I don't even know the lady! She doesn't know me or my taste. So, me being the nice person I am, go with them to see the "wedding planner's" portfolio. When I get there, I don't see any of her work...she hands me magazines that she uses! I was thinking to myself "why did I come here, I have all of these magazines at my house!". Thank God I found my location and they decorate the facility themselves. I've heard a lot about the location and am happy with it. Then, i wasn't sure about my colors for my wedding so i decided to go to Davids Bridal and look at the color combos in the store (since they look very different on the computer). They invited themselves. That isn't even the bad part, they got there an hour before me!! i was furious, but I held my composure! Another thing, I told them that my mom and I are going to view the ceremony site this week. Once again, they invited themselves. The icing on the cake was when they said my colors were ugly! How rude!!! This is supposed to be my day! My fiance has let me plan the whole wedding (he just wants to pick his cake and the honeymoon)! My mom is just as upset as I am. I'm ready to give her the boot and tell them to back off... is there a nice way to say it??? HELP??

Okay, so my colors are canary and champagne... what could I have blue that won't make me look too crazy??

Ok, I'm 6 ft tall... my fiance is 6'1" tall. It wouldn't be nice for me to be taller than my groom. I'm wearing these flats! Plus, I'll be very COMFY!

i'm not quite sure as to what hairstyle I want. My mom wants me to wear it up in a bun (she says it's elegant) and I'm totally confused!!!

Okay I wanted 7 BMs b/c 7 is my fav number. they are as follows MOH- LaTorrea BMs Tasha(college BF), Kisha(Groom's sis), Quenitra(Groom's sis), Nicole(cousin), Denise( College roomy), and Eno( High school BF). Also have 7 GMs (of course) Plus 3 Greeters/Hostesses ( a position to give to those you want in your wedding but have no more room in BM side or GM side)

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I love calla lilies... they fit well with my theme and color.