This is nmacdoug's Blue Wedding!

So I need all you brides advice on this one. One of my BM my FH sister who I am very close with is being really frustrating to me and its stressing me out beyond. This is the problem and I need your advice on how to go about it. First off I have 3 BM who are the one mentioned and my two sisters. My sisters are great when I send them links of dresses I like they rarely say anything about them and if they do I know they really hate the dress. But the other one it just seems like everything I send her she has something to say about it....also we are having 3 flower girls. My sisters girl and the mentioned BM 2 girls. One of them is 5 and the other is 2, and the one that is 5 said she isn't wearing any dress that is itchy and she wants it to be blue. The younger is wearing blue and the two older(my sisters is 6) are wearing white with a blue sash. The mentioned BM said that the girl is going to be pissed off....like really she is 5.....anyway and every dress I send her for them she has something to say about that. My FH said to just say this is what they are wearing and thats that but I want her to have some say but its getting to the point I don't know anymore....HELP!!

How long did you date before you got engaged?
10 years and 4 months

Did you get the ring you wanted?
I got a better one than I wanted!!

Was the proposal a complete surprise?
I knew it would eventually come but not when it did so yes

Do you wish you had a bigger/smaller diamond? If so How big or small?
Its perfect :)

Did you cry when he proposed?
Yes!

When do you want to go for your honeymoon?
Possibly in March

Are you buying his wedding band for him?
Yes

Have you gone over your original wedding budget?
Not so far

What day of the year will your wedding be?
Saturday

What kind of weather?
Hopefully sunny with snow on the ground/trees

Outside or Inside?
Inside

Church/justice of the peace/other?
In a lodge

How many people will be there?
Around 200-220

Time of day?
Around 2ish

How many bridesmaids? Who would they be?
2 bridesmaids(One sister one soon to be sister) 1 MOH(sister)

What kind of cake/what will it look like?
3 or 4 square tiers with silver and blue ribbon with snowflakes

What kind of dress will you have/color/material?
Sweetheart strapless, princess ballgown with tons of sparkle

What kind of flowers in your bouquet?
cala lillies, with navy blue roses

Kind of wedding bands?
Not sure yet

How will you wear your hair?
Maybe half down, and curly.

Who will be important to be there?
All of our family and friends

Will the reception be big or small?
Big!!

What will the groom wear?
Tux

How old will you and the groom be?
We will both be 27

How long will you be engaged before you get married?
13 months

Live together before or wait till married?
Lived together for at least 4 years now

Take a long time to plan the wedding or will it be simple?
Its was pretty much planned for awhile I am one of those girls who has been dreaming of their wedding since a kid

Will you do it yourself or with family or hire someone to plan the wedding?
Myself and my family especially my mother who is doing all the flowers/center pieces

Will you write your own vows or use something pre-made?
We will use traditional vows

Wondering if there is any other winter brides out there that can give me some ideas!

Well it all happened on Jan.24, 2011. We have been together for 10 years (high school sweethearts) We talked about marriage and stuff but both decided it wasn't a good time because Jon was just going back to school to finish his engineering degree and I was just finished so starting a new job. Then we went through a really rough patch with Jons mom passing away suddenly and then a few months later his dad had a heart attack. So anyway it was pretty tough and then finally something great happened, heres the story :)

It was like -30 and we took the dog for a walk which we do every night, and we have this park/ball field by our house that we go to. It was a gorgeous but cold night and the park overlooks the northwest arm and I was saying how much I love it there. He said that it reminded him of the ballfield in Antigonish(where we used to go before we started dating). He asked me if he actually asked me out that night we went there or did he screw it up? I said no you pretty much screwed it up.(He tried to ask me out one night and was so nervous he didn't and ended up smashing my head into a fence on accident cuz he didn't realize I was leaning on the fence and he kinda pushed it cuz he was upset he was so nervous). And then he was like well maybe this will make it up to you and pulled out the ring!!! I was so excited I couldn't believe it that he hid it from me so well!