04/03/2011
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So I need all you brides advice on this one. One of my BM my FH sister who I am very close with is being really frustrating to me and its stressing me out beyond. This is the problem and I need your advice on how to go about it. First off I have 3 BM who are the one mentioned and my two sisters. My sisters are great when I send them links of dresses I like they rarely say anything about them and if they do I know they really hate the dress. But the other one it just seems like everything I send her she has something to say about it....also we are having 3 flower girls. My sisters girl and the mentioned BM 2 girls. One of them is 5 and the other is 2, and the one that is 5 said she isn't wearing any dress that is itchy and she wants it to be blue. The younger is wearing blue and the two older(my sisters is 6) are wearing white with a blue sash. The mentioned BM said that the girl is going to be pissed off....like really she is 5.....anyway and every dress I send her for them she has something to say about that. My FH said to just say this is what they are wearing and thats that but I want her to have some say but its getting to the point I don't know anymore....HELP!!
sweetlatina's Purple wedding
 |  West haven, CT, USA  |  04/03/2011  | 
You need to put your foot down and tell her that her daughter is going to wear what you pick out. It's your wedding and she shouldn't have any say. She is going to have to get over it. Don't stress yourself out.
oxsabrinaxo's Black wedding
 |  Mississauga, ON, Canada  |  04/04/2011  | 
i agree with sweetlatina, its your wedding you have the last say. your already being nice enough to let her even have a say to which dresses. if my BM says that her 5 years old is going to be pissed and wont wear it, then simple thing is then she wont be a flower girl. But it's easier said then done. But stil, its your wedding and you do what you want. shes just going to have to live with that! Good luck!
mzcantey's Purple wedding
 |  Charlottesville, VA, USA  |  04/04/2011  | 
I agree also. It's your day you should have it the way you invision it. Besides their only gonna wear the dress this one day why can't they suck it up and be happy for you and try and make your day as special as they can. You were nice enough to even let them have an opinion, I would just say this is what it is and thats that.
classybride's Blue wedding
 |  USA  |  04/13/2011  | 
I agree, don't stress yourself and if you really are going to tell her, do it soon. You don't want to wait too late. Hopefully the 5yr old gets broken out her ways. Theres going to be plenty things shes going to have to do that she isn't going to want to do. The main thing with marriage is listening to each other, so take his advice.
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