Ask a Question - Is ne body frustrated beyond relief??? - OTEPXOXO's Black Wedding by Color Blog

Im getting so nervous.. I feel like I have no one to go to, to talk to.. I really just need to vent. Im really upset about everything, I keep thinking things aren't going to work out as I planned. I am so frustrated with trying to get the invites out.. my family has been such a great help with addresses and stuff.. But The Future husbands parents, dont even seem to know we are getting married, and I feel helpless. If I dont get those addresses his family will not show up and the rest of them will be totally upset... I have been so stressed, just eating everything in sight that is greasy and bad for me, I dont have any kind of healthy diet going on, and I dont want to eat healthy.. I have bad sleeps everynight, but still sleep all the time. I have like gave up on my house work. I just feel like I have a really bad attitude. Im even scared to go for my dress alterations, cuz Im afraid it wont fit. Im in a financial rut, and Yesterday was the 11th year that my dad passed away, which has started to bug me, and I cant decide on my freakin hair colour! I was so pissed off like a month ago My mother in law was writing my name down on a tax form and asked me what my last name was???? I was thinking are you serious?? I have been with your son for six years and have a daughter together with him and you dont know my last name???? WTF

Haha the pic made me laugh , its kinda what I feel like though lol

im just really upset about everything, sorry to tell the world about my problems but, Its not like ill be putting it up on facecrack... Wow that was at least good to get off my chest.

I am sending HUGE hugs to you!!! Us WBC gals are here for you! Keep your chin up! Go peak at your daughter and be thankful we are so blessed to have the gift of being mommies! That always works for me!
***HUGS!***

Awwwww! Cheer up love everything will work out! Vent away!!

It sounds like you're having a hard time right now. I'm also sending a hug your way. It's definitely good to talk about it and let it all out.

Its just a stressful time and WE ALL know what you're going through! Just take a day to yourself to relax do what you want to do for you and then let everything in the past go! Meditate, read a book, do a DIY project, watch a movie that you really like or want to see, drink some wine and RELAX! Hugs!

oh, I hope im not too late for the group hug

~~~~~HUGS~~~~~~~

Hopping into the group hug!!! No worries girl, we're all here for you!! Unfortnuately, I feel sometimes wedding planning is so stressful, it brings out the worse in us (well at least me when I'm super pissed LOL!) but hang in there and remember how blessed we truly are to find that one true love AND how cool we are to be mommies (as summerdawn mentioned)! Ok, now group hug!!

*running to join in on this group hug* I understand your frustration sweetie! Hang in there, vent anytime!

Hey I JUst want to send a BIG Thanx to everyone!!! I feel like It actually helped to vent here, because evrybody here is also going through wedding planning! U girls are awesome and I send my hugs back to everyone!!! Thanx again I really appreciate it

ok, let's relax...... i think u should understand that everything is not your fault.....or u are not at fault for everything, with that being said, its your FH's responsibility to make sure he gets the addresses to his family members to invite them to HIS wedding. why are you taking on all of that added stress? talk to your fiance tell him that he needs to get in contact with his family to invite them, tell him you have invited all of ur family and its isnt fair to not invite his side of the family b.c u cant contact them.............I went though ths with my FH and when it came down to it, I never got their addresses, he never got them either???? his dad didnt care!??? what???? his step mom decided to pass out invites to them, so I gave her a bunch of them, and she did, they did come, but I didnt let it stress me anymore than it needed to.....planning is stressful, up until the very last day.....good luck to you and hang in there......

Awww, girl you deserve a big hug! Shame on them for slacking on addresses, it would be nice if everyone made this process a little easier. I remember my mom saying when I was stressed - taking care of yourself is part of the planning process too. I mean the beautiful bride is part of the main event, and you definitely should fit some pampering in like watching funny movie in your PJ's and not think about the wedding. So sorry all of this has all kind of happened at once. This is a great place to let it all out. ;) When it rains it always pours in life eh?

ps. you are right, this picture does rock!

did she honestly not know your last name?!?!! WTH lol. Im sorry your so stressed! thats definitly no fun and no good for your health. I might have to join in on this group hug and if u ever need any advice or help just let us know

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