This is paulnfayleah43's Pink Wedding!

THis is our Yungest son (Dominick-Rory aka Day Day) who gon' handle the Bling Blang BLoooooooow wit care... (cross yah fingaz)

Only 5 years old so you know he gon' needs a tight grip on da rings.

We've been married for sometime now,
and this is more of a Reaffirmation of VOWS . We have decided that Pops wont be steppin it down the aisle wit me. He movin in it down the aisle with my mom.
Instead our 2 oldest sons Paul aka "P. jizzle" 9 yrs. and Jahlani aka "Lani" 7 yrs old will be escorting Mommy aka "The Bride"

Oh N' best believe they will be g'd up from da feet up wit tha stunna shades on. yaaaaaaah dig?

We were unable to decide on favors (even though there's time), so we decided to do a Candy buffet favor table.
Placing an elegant see-trhu bag on each chair (with a card of instructions inside)

Folks may help themselves to the favor table.

We may be serving a variety of (shades of pink, white and silver) heart shaped candy, rock candy and more candy, homemade lollipops wrapped tightly in clear sulifane with pink and black bows, some smaller chocolate candies and of course theres more where that came from etc, etc, and will have pictures (in frames) for the first come first serve guests to also take as a favor.

Table will be decorated to the "T"

These are some flix i found on the internet just to give an idea.

This is our 1 year old daughter Casiani aka "Priiiiity GUH" lol (our only daughter) who will be our Flower girl.
Im thinking she may need super vision/escort walking down dat aisle.

We also wont be giving her a normal basket with flower pedals in it. "She may try and eat them" or throw the basket at someone besides the fact we aren't allowed rice, confetti etc.

So she will be carrying a pink pomander boquet

I guess this will be a DIY project

OUR COLORS WILL BE: Shades of pink (fuschia and hot pink) and Black with Silver and white as our aceent colors.

Our theme will be the Momogram that we are having created for us (coming soon) and the
"Double Hearts"

The flowers we have chosen are Calla Lilies, Oriental Lilies or Stargazer Lilies (pink) "SO UNDECISIVE" and Orchids (white and pink).

I am not quite sure how these will be arranged but, I do know that My Hubby and our 3 sons will be wearing the Lilies as a boutineer.

My Bouquet will be a mixture
&
well our daughters' will be whatever we make the pomeander out of. (still undecisive)

Our parents will also be sportin' the corsages and boutineers made up of Mini Orchids (pink for our Moms and white for our dads)

Since, I was blessed in a family of bakers. My moms will be making the cake.
HOWEVER, our cake will be a "fake cake" for display all layers except for the top layer which will be real so hubby and I can do the famous cake cutting event at the reception for everyone to watch.

Our cake will be a 4 multi layered cake lol, will be made with pink strawberry cake and have a fresh strawberries n' cream filling.(thats been decided)

The outside will be white vanilla butter cream with alternating Black and pink ribbons to outline each layer. (found these pictures on the internet)

The topping of the cake will be one of the Lilies in pink with the initials (small) F (left side) (Large) B (middle) (small) P (right side) as these are our initials.

The cake table will be decorated fancy (but, will be a suprise to me since my Oh SO creative sisters and 2 life long friends are handling that).

After being married for 9 years or should I say 10 years this December 12, 2008 we have finally decided to have a semi wedding / reaffirmation of wedding vows.
Wellllllll, we have 4 lovely children and so we are deffinately "Ballin' on a Budget" for this event. I
Iam pretty excited that we have decided to do this since, we spoke about it forever since the beginning of our high school years. However, since we are on a budget "I" will be doing the planning.
I have coordinated and decorated birthday parties but, Never a wedding. Everything has to be perfect and I know that I can make it just how we want it even with a budget. Details are Tedious are they not?
The only thing that I have done so far is found table linens (superb), the actual Hall which the ceremony/reception will take place, caterer, deejay, decorator, and have small ideas here and there.
Any suggestions?????? What should my very next step be?
I dont even know where to start? "Ohhhhhhhh no I haven't even started.