01/26/2012
fingers crossed
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Bridesmaids
Fingers crossed, ladies!!

OK. Soooo, you all know the drama from the last bridesmaid dress shopping trip. Before I had had the girls give me ideas for dresses, and thats what they tried on, and couldn't agree on anything. So after some thinking, crying, and everything else, I talked to my Mom and she told me that I needed to gain back control of the situation. It wasn't my fault that it spiraled out of control, but I didn't stop it. So now I am taking it into my own hands. :)

I chose five dresses myself. The out of state bridesmaid tried them on last night. And she liked all of them but one. This is a good sign, ladies!! At first she had sent all of them to me but one. So I asked her about it and she told me it was too slinky and was a no. I told her that that was ok, it was still an option and I would just see it when the others tried it on. I was so proud of myself with that, haha. It was a nice way of saying that I am the only one that will say no this time. So she sent me the pic. There is one dress that ALL of the girls like online, so I am keeping my fingers crossed that they ALL like it on!!!!!

The rest of the girls and I are going tomorrow. So we shall see what happens. The bridal shop has told me we really need to get these ordered soon, so we WILL have a dress decided tomorrow. I just hope it's one that everyone can agree on, that would make it alot easier. Sooooooo, until then, once again, wish me luck!!! LOL.

littlelamb's Purple wedding
 |  Petrolia, ON, Canada  |  01/26/2012  | 
I have my fingers crossed for you girl!!! I am so proud of your assertiveness!!! isnt it funny how moms can always tell us what to do and it suddenly makes sense? You can have 25 people tell you to do something, but once you hear it form your mom you stop thinking about it and you just do it :) I guess thats what they are for! gotta love em! :)
ourrenewalsagain's Pink wedding
 |  North highlands, CA, USA  |  01/26/2012  | 
christy1's Purple wedding
 |  Zambia  |  01/26/2012  | 
all the best my darling. Im sure it will all go well. xox
princesni's Pink wedding
 |  Luanda, Luanda, Angola  |  01/27/2012  | 
awww all the best hun am hoping they all like it on!
hismrsb's Purple wedding
 |  Mississauga, ON, Canada  |  01/27/2012  | 
good luck honey!

your mom was right, you did not have the power and you needed it back! now that you have it and it feels great, own it!

good luck sweet heart <3 i have my fingers crossed for you! keep us posted :)

xox
phillysgirl5's Pink wedding
 |  Houston, TX, USA  |  01/28/2012  | 
Thanks so much girls!!!! It went sooo much better, I'll post about it later. :) I appreciate all the good wishes! @littlelamb, you are so right, it is funny that a light clicks when your Mom tells you something. Guess that's all part of being "Mamas girls." lol. :)
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