retrobride's Black Wedding Blog - Wedding By Color

Our 1940's Film Wedding - Photo Slide-Show

Thu, 25 Feb 2010 21:17:00 PST

Okay, i was having trouble editing my wedding video, so i made a shotty photo slide show..lol. Enjoy! I'm still trying to edit the wedding video..stay tuned.

1940's wedding from chrissy surmeyan on Vimeo.

Ask a Question - Help with online video editing

Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:39:00 PST

Hey girls! It's been a while. I'm trying to figure out how to edit my wedding video without asking my husband for help...it's not working out so far, lol. I tried using onetruemedia.com, but it's not letting me edit the way i want (i want to pick short clips and put it all together to make a 5-10 min vid with music). I also tried some software that my husband has, but i'd have to reformat the vid which i really don't know how to do. Can anyone suggest any online video editing sites that are easy to use?..i'm not so good with computer stuff.

Top 3 Favorites From The Bridal Show - video guest book, custom favors, custom gowns

Sat, 16 Jan 2010 19:48:00 PST

Hello ladies. I went to the Toronto bridal show last weekend to research vendors/contacts (I'm entering the event planning biz) and to meet an event planner who i may work for...hopefully. It was actually my first bridal show...yeah, i didn't go to one when i was getting married...lol. My Top 3 Faves... 1. Video Guest Book (and video speeches) - Liberty Group Only Liberty Group offers this amazing feature. My friend/photographer came up with concept - using a touch-screen guests click on record and record a message to the bride & groom, then they make you a video of all the messages for you. Guests can have a lot of fun with this and i much rather have a video (and see everyone who was at my wedding) than a guest book i'll probably never look at again. They can also prerecord speeches from family and friends, ask them all the same questions and then edit it all together to play at the wedding....much more entertaining than guests listening to a bunch of boring speeches and those who had to do speeches won't be so nervous, lol. I will ask my friend/photographer more about this (price, website etc) and post the info in a new post. If you're really interested in the info before i get a chance to post it, email me chrissy991@gmail.com 2. Custom Chocolate Favors - Cocoa Mosaic These chocolates are like art work. So beautiful. I actually had to ask what they were, they looked too pretty to be edible. You can have your logo, names, or special print on them wrapped in a pretty box. They would also look lovely on dessert table or candy buffet. Check out their site - http://www.cocoamosaic.com/ 3. Custom Bridal Gowns - Shkank I have been shopping at Shkank for over 10 years (although i have not done much shopping in a while) and always drool over their window displays. I forgot that they did custom bridal dresses till i saw the designer at the bridal show. They had some of the most beautiful dresses i've EVER seen on display. I wish i had one of them when i got married. If you're looking for a truly unique, stunning and one of a kind gown go to Shkank Toronto - http://www.shkank.com/wp/

Wedding Decoration - NWR: Fairy Winter Wonderland Party

Sun, 13 Dec 2009 13:50:00 PST

As some of you know, I'm currently taking a course on event/wedding planning...i just did my first event! It was a fairy winter wonderland themed b-day party for a one year old. It all turned out great! It was a lot of work cause the budget was very small (as it should be for a one year old's b-day party). I used a lot of stuff i already had at home, borrowed from friends, and the guys at my husbands work (special effects shop) donated over $300 worth of snow (which we had issues fitting into our Mini..lol) cause it was my first event...they will not be so generous in the future. They also let me use their shop to make the snowballs..i didn't wanna make a mess of my place, plus they have all the right tools there. The client bought tons of snowflakes, dragonflies, and branches etc, to decorate with and she's taking a cake decorating course so she made the cakes herself...they turned out GREAT. My FIL lent me his mini photo printer so we could do instant photos in front of the tree...everyone loved that they had a keepsake to take home. Our good friend who owns a print shop gave us a 30% discount on her b-day poster too. My first event was a success. I hope it always is.

Our New Home - pics!!

Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:14:00 PST

We just got the keys to our new loft yesterday!!! We're so excited to move in...i can't sleep! Here's some pics of the place - we still need to paint, and do a few minor renovations...and add furniture and decorate..lol. My FIL is there painting right now, and most of our new furniture will be delivered next Friday, which is when we're moving in. But we'll be without sofa's till they are delivered - the fabrics we picked for the sofa & chair & ottoman are on backorder. So, we're just gonna use inflatable sofas till they arrive..lol!! I'm hoping the couches arrive by the holidays...or sooner. Can't wait to move!!

DIY Wedding - Great Idea's for placecards/favors

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 11:19:00 PST

I saw these chalkboard candles in a Style at Home mag and thought it would be a great DIY project with a bit of chalkboard paint on a votive holder. You can also buy them already made (with a matching mini box of chalk) on kaboodle.com or @ Gowens The Shop in Toronto, for $35 each. But if you make them yourself it'll be much much cheaper. I also saw some chalkboard coasters on beau-coup.com...which can also be a DIY project.

Movin' on Up - We Bought a Loft!!!!

Thu, 01 Oct 2009 14:23:00 PST

I can't contain my excitment right now!! When i got the call that we got the loft i was walking across a busy intersection (during rush hour) and started screaming with excitment and jumping up and down...everyone must have thought i was crazy. I just said " this is was happy looks like people"..LOL! Then i rushed home and gave our landlord our 60 day notice. My FIL is trying close the sale by the end of this month, so we'll have a full month to paint, add lighting (there's only floor lamps there now), add a backsplash in the kitchen, measure & plan out furniture options, etc.. I'm so in love with this place. The building was an old clothing factory. It's downtown Toronto, penthouse level (8th floor - but it's not the "penthouse"), only 10 min walking to my husbands work, high ceilings (with exposed pipes), floor to ceiling windows, 2 bedrooms, 1 1/2 bath (with bowl sinks - love it!), laundry room, stainless steel appliances, gas stove, large balcony with a nice view, dark wood floors, fireplace, tons of closet space,gorgeous lobby & 24 hour security, plus we get a locker and parking spot. The best part is about to come - buying new furniture and decorating! EEEKKKK!!!!! * doing a happy dance* My friend wants to take over the apartment we have now and she needs furniture, so we're leaving behind most of our furniture for her (couches, bed, dinning set, chopping block island, a few side tables, desk, shelf, glass cabnet). So hopefully that happens, then we wont have to deal with people coming in and out to look at our apartment, and we wont have to deal with throwing out all that furniture. I'm soooo excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OUR FIRST PROPERTY!!

Enrolled in School! - Event Planning, Wedding Planning and Business

Tue, 25 Aug 2009 14:31:00 PST

Wish me luck! I just enrolled yesterday and start the course next week. We're gonna be pretty busy the next several months with school and looking for a house, loft, or condo, where i'll have my very own office to run my business out of. I'm so excited! YAY!

Ask a Question - VOTE-Which pics should i use for my DIY Thank You cards?

Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:54:00 PST

Hey ladies! It's been a while. My honeymoon was amazing! I will blog about it soon. So, we've been married for almost 4 months and still have not sent out our Thank You Cards!! Is that really bad? Well, we've decided to design our own to match all our other art deco wedding stationary. We also decided we wanted a layout kinda like this... http://www.cqcards.com/viewcard.php?g=1&i=3&f=1 ...so we can pick out a few different pics rather than just one. We want one shot of us on the front cover, a small one of us inside, one with our bridal party on the inside, a small decor pic inside, and one with our marquee on the back cover. Can you help me decide which pics i should use? I have already decided on the bridal pic (pic # 3), i just need help with the others. Thanks :)

We got Featured Again!! - Offbeat Bride

Tue, 07 Jul 2009 21:11:00 PST

YAY!! Here's the link... http://offbeatbride.com/2009/07/art-deco-wedding#referrer btw, we googled our names the other day...and a bunch of stuff from our wedding comes up....LOL! Andre thought it was funny.

La Senza Sale!

Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:30:00 PST

La Senza is having a sale on Bridal Lingerie! There are some great deals! They're also having a $9.99 Bra sale. You can get free shipping on orders over $89 if you order online.

Sale @ Ostrich.com - Promo code

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 11:00:00 PST

If anyone is using feathers in their decor now is time to buy. Ostrich.com is offering up to 60% off selected products with this promotional code - SUMMER2009 I

Part 2 & 3 are up

Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:20:00 PST

If anyone is interested in knowing which vendors we used or a look @ our DIY pojects, you can see them in part 2 & 3 of our wedding feature on never a bridezilla blog.... http://neverabridezilla.blogspot.com/2009/06/chrissy-and-andres-old-hollywood.html

Retro Housewife Shower

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 19:49:00 PST

retro housewife shower by retrobride on Polyvore.com

I'm staring school soon to be a wedding/event planner as some of you know. Well, i'm helping a couple friends with their weddings already. They just started planning, so we're still throwing some ideas around...most likely they'll go with a jewel tone wedding (which i'll post about when i have more info). She has decided that she wants a retro housewife theme shower though. So here's some ideas we have so far, but we're still working on it... - favors - Anne Taintor retro housewife gift bags with a retro apron inside, which the girls will wear at the shower, and vintage milk bottles filled with bath salts - centerpieces - vases with utensils & a few small flower arrangements in vintage watering cans - serving the classic milkshakes, homemade pies, fried chicken, mashed potatoes, cup cakes, etc - 50's housewife invites from bumpercards.com - Anne Taintor retro housewife cocktail napkins - vintage dishware

Our Wedding Got Featured Again! - Part 1 is up

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:27:00 PST

This time on a Canadian wedding blog...here's the link to part 1... http://neverabridezilla.blogspot.com/2009/06/chrissy-and-andre.html Part 2 will be up soon (which i think will include DIY projects).

Honeymoon - Slight change of plans - only 20 Euros to Venice!

Thu, 11 Jun 2009 09:19:00 PST

After a few days in Barcelona, we are going to Rome...we were going to rent a car and drive to the Amalfi Coast/Positano...but Andre was not really into the drive (over 3 hrs away - some of it a difficult drive - windy roads on cliffs). So i found a flight to Venice (from Rome) for only 20 Euros each (including taxes & fees - RYANAIR) and it's only a one hour flight!!!!! So i booked it! LOL! Now we'll have an extra day in Rome, which we needed to get to see more sights...and we're only spending one day & night in Venice. We arrive in Treviso @ 7:30 am and take a bus (only 10 euros return) for an hour to get to Venice's center...we could get there in half the time if we took a water taxi or drive, but it'll cost way more than the flight, so we'll settle for the bus and see the scenery along the way. We'll have ALL DAY and night to check out the sights and do a bit of shopping...thankfully most of the sights we want to see are within walking distance. We'll be staying right in St Marks Square, so everything is right there. After seeing sights all day we can have a romantic dinner, have a couple cocktails...then fly back to Rome @ 8am the next day. We'll be arriving in Rome a bit early for our flight back to Barcelona (where we're spending our last 8 nights).. so we'll spend the morning & afternoon seeing sights we missed or do a bit of shopping before flying to Barcelona @ 8pm. We plan on leaving our luggage in Barcelona and just bring backpacks to Italy...don't wanna lug around luggage with all that traveling around in Italy, or have to think about what to do with it on that last day in Rome we wont have a hotel to store it in. And this also saves us almost 50 Euros cause we wont have bags to check with Ryanair...plus it's only 5 days in Italy , we don't need that much stuff. Even though we wont be in Venice very long, we'll get to see most of the sights we want to see, and we'll get to stay in a gorgeous classic renaissance hotel overlooking the canals & gondola's...EEEEKKKKKKKK!!!! EXCITING!!!!! I've always said i'd finally go to Italy when i'm on my honeymoon (even before i had a boyfriend)...and now i'm going! YAY!!!

Honeymoon - Spain & Italy - finally all sorted out

Mon, 08 Jun 2009 20:54:00 PST

Ahhhh...it's done. I've been on the compuer all day trying to finalize all our honeymoon plans.... Starting in Barcelona, staying at a friends house from Thursday to Sunday..most likely we'll just be doing a lot of partying that weekend, lol. Sunday morning we leave for Rome (got an amazing deal from ryanair.com) for 2.5 days to check out all the sights and go to Vatican City also. We have a view of the Coliseum from our hotel, which is pretty sweet..so, we're in walking distance from a lot of the sights we want to see. Then we're renting a car (that's the only thing left to book) and driving past Naples to the Amalfi Coast, we'll stop in little towns along the way. I'd love to get some pics of the olive & citrus grooves. We'll settle for 2 nights in Positano (in a cute hotel with a balcony with seaside views) and take a day trip to Capri island before driving back to Rome for our flight back to Barcelona. We'll arrive back in Barcalona in time for the weekend...got more partying to do, lol. Then we'll spend our last week taking in the sights of Barcelona and heading out of town to see the Dali museum. Our friends there also have plans for us. we'll see what they come up with. One month away! Can't wait! I really need to tan before i go there and blind all the Europeans with my white legs. Here's pics of the hotels we'll be staying at, and the names are listed below if anyone needs hotels in any of these places. They were all booked on the ryanair.com site.

Our Wedding got Featured on Vintageglamblog.com!!

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:57:00 PST

Woohoo! I had noidea it was up already..till sapphire2009 let me know, lol. I did know she was going to feature it though :) You can see it here.. http://vintageglamblog.com/2009/06/chrissy-andres-old-hollywood-wedding/

Honeymoon - Booked our flight - only had to pay $300!!

Sun, 31 May 2009 21:41:00 PST

One of the best idea's i had while planning our wedding - registering for Sear's travel gift cards. With all the cards, we only had to pay $300 for 2 tickets to Barcelona, Spain! Now we have to book our tickets from Barcelona to the Amalfi coast in Italy...we'll be in Barcelona for the first weekend, then spend 5 days in Italy, then back to Barcelona for a week. Our friends in Barcelona are helping us find an apartment to rent there and they're helping us find a cheap flight to Italy. I'm so excited!!! Just a month and a week away!!!! Now i got some shopping to do, lol...need some hot outfits for our hot getaway. UPDATE - We got a call from the travel agent - we overpaid!!! LOL! She gave us a hundred bucks back!! We only paid $200 total for bot of to fly to Barcelona!!! I immediately spent it on a bikini (sailor/blue & white stripes - with free bikini bag & flip flops) and a pair of shorts...we were at the mall anyways, lol.

Ask a Question - Are dispoasable camera's a waste of money? (our pics)

Sat, 23 May 2009 13:05:00 PST

I spent about $3.50 on each camera (18 cameras) plus shipping, and $80 to process the film and put the files on a disc. Out of all that film we maybe only got 100 *clear* photos, and a couple of the cameras only had one pic cause the camera broke after just one shot. Some will say this is a waste of money, but i'm actually glad we had them, even though they are not the greatest quality...it showed us a glimpse of what was going on each table, and some guest took "special" pics just for us, LOL. What do you think, are disposable cameras a waste? Here's a few of the pics from our disposables...i didn't post any of the "special" ones, lol. Everyone looks like they were having a great time.... http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=95971&id=564301690&l=7ef8d524ea http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=95973&id=564301690&l=87603ab8af

Thank You cards - How cute is this?

Wed, 20 May 2009 20:29:00 PST

Saw this on marthastewart.com and thought it was adorable.

Photo Booth Alternative - Instant digital photos

Tue, 12 May 2009 21:17:00 PST

it was not in my budget to add a photo booth, so our photographer (a good friend) offered to do instant photos. We had a 6 foot table with his laptop and small printer, and a bunch of accessories (hats, boas, cigarette holders, cigars, costume jewelry, clap boards, etc) for the guests to use as props in their pics. (Thankfully there was a nice backdrop @ the venue already and i didn't have to come up with one.) They were all printed while we were having dinner, then placed on the escort card table, and guests just grabed theirs as they left. It was a hit! I totally recommend it! It only cost us a total of $125! It makes a great favor that people will actually keep. I could only post a few pics...i don't want to post a bunch of friends pics without them knowing, lol.

DIY Wedding - Vintage Invitations, Programs, Menu's & Table Cards

Tue, 12 May 2009 20:42:00 PST

I'm just reposting a few of my old posts that were erased.... We designed and made our own Programs...we wanted them to be like a film premiere program to go with our 40's film theme. We found a few Art Deco Invitations online and got our inspiration for our wedding invites from that..we had to redraw it and tweek it a bit. We also included rehearsal dinner invites with the wedding invite...only to those who were invited to the rehearsal dinner. Everything was printed on cardstock (even the map) that was purchased @ Kinkos. We ordered the vertigo black tie pocket folder's from cardsand pockets.com..along with the envelopes. We did all our printing for the invites @ Northern Artists (on St.Clair/Yonge) and we printed the programs at home. We decided to include a movie ticket to add in the film part of the theme again and it had some extra info that i didn't want on the actual invitation. I ordered the feathers from Ostrich.com and just used a glue gun to apply it to the ribbon (the ribbon was also glueed together on the back - it just slides right off the invitation) and then added a crystal in the center. For the shower Invitations, i found a cute retro pic online and my husband just tweeked it a bit, and made the guy in the background bald (cause he's bald) and changed the car to a Mini, cause that's what he drives....so cute!! The menu's, we wanted then to match the invitations...we did them in B&W though, instead of the antique effect we did with the invites. I added 2 crystals to the the top (around our logo) and one at the center bottom. We named our tables as well as number them...all after actors of the 30's 40's & early 50's. They looked great on the tables, very glam. It was a whole lotta work, but it was soooo worth it in the end.

Bachelor/bachelorette pics

Mon, 11 May 2009 20:53:00 PST

Woohoo, what a great night! We decided to have a co-ed bachelor party cause for one, we wanted it that way, and two cause a lot of our friends flew in early to make it in time to the bachelor party so that we can ALL hang out together...plus it allowed some people to get to know others (those who didn't really know anyone) before the wedding day. Everyone had a fabulous time. We started with a Burlesque show...fun! Then we went to Toi Bar, where our Bestman was DJing that night...i danced my ass off! Here's some pics... http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=94247&id=564301690&l=ccb50cea64

1940's film premiere reception - PICS!

Sun, 10 May 2009 21:38:00 PST

What a fun night! Everything came together almost perfectly! more pics in previous posts :) enjoy!

Ceremony Pics

Sun, 10 May 2009 21:28:00 PST

Here's some more pics! (pre ceremony & portraits are in my previous post)

Pre Ceremony pics/portraits

Sun, 10 May 2009 21:10:00 PST

As promised, here's some more pics. These are just a few from when when we were getting ready, and a few shots from the park...we took pics before the ceremony.

Wedding Decoration - PICS!!!!!

Fri, 08 May 2009 22:10:00 PST

I just got back from visting my photographer, now i have thousands of pics (JUST THE PROOFS - HE STILL NEEDS TO ADJUST LIGHTING & WHATNOT) to go through..so i picked out some pics of a few of the decor details...including a lace DIY project, wedding cake, table settings, etc... I'll have some fun pics later after i finish going through all of them...including the instant "dress up" photo's :D

A few more pics from our wedding

Mon, 04 May 2009 15:26:00 PST

I still don't have the professional pics yet, but here's a few that i got from friends on facebook.

Retrobride Recap - Oh What A Night

Mon, 04 May 2009 11:28:00 PST

First, thanks for all your comments on my last post...you are all so sweet. I'll have more pics really soon :) I guess i'll start from the beginning.... All us girls got ready at my in-law's house, there was tons of food and everyone was in a great mood...even the moody girls, LOL. The hair stylist & makeup artist did such an AMAZING job and the assistant was so helpful....she steamed all the clothes, brought everyone food & drinks and saved the day by driving back to my apartment to pick up the MOH's dress that she forgot there. Then one of the BM's dresses ripped when she put it on (it was a size 00 & she's a really a size 2) so she had to lie on the floor and the dress was sewn on while she was wearing it...she had to be cut out of the dress at the end of the night, LMAO!!!! Then the boys arrived at the house and it was time to see my groom for the first time (MY FAVORITE MOMENT OF THE DAY!). He was standing outside and i walked out to meet him...he looked so handsome. He began to cry when he saw me and had a nice long hug and kiss (can't wait to the pics). We then took pics at the park and at our venue all afternoon. This is where my bustle broke and my MOH's heels broke, right before walking down the aisle. We crazy glued her shoes and they held up, but there was no fixing my bustle so i just held the train with a loop all night. Oh yeah, and the flower girls outfit never arrived so we had to get her a backup the day before the wedding...it arrived today...um it's a bit late. The ceremony was hilarious!!!! The candles that were lining the aisle where too close together that there was not that much room to walk, so a few members of the BP banged into them...all you heard was SMASH, CRASH, BANG followed by laughter...everyone laughed. Then my train knocked one over and spilled candle wax all over the place and my brother inlaw quickly grabbed it before my dress would catch fire, LOL! The officiant was so hilarious that it made us feel a bit more at ease. When we were doing our vows (the one about being faithful for the rest of your life), my FH didn't hear the officiant so he yelled "WHAT?"...everyone bursted out laughing cause it sounded like this was the first time he heard that he had to be faithful. LMAO!!!! Apparently i made a few jokes during my vows but i don't even remember them cause i was so nervous and trying not to cry. I'll have to wait for the video to see what i said. Then came the red carpet with the paparazzi....they looked SO AMAZING!!!!!! I can't wait to see the video with all the red carpet interviews. The guests really enjoyed the instant photos too and were happy to have a pic to take home with them. The cigarette girl (my friend from B.C) looked so hot!!! She made her own outfit (picture in my last post) and my husband made the tray. It was a hit! After cocktail hour the curtains in the cocktail lounge opened and revealed the gorgeous ballroom and the movie screen (venue is an old movie theater) dropped from the ceiling and played some classic dance clips from old movies, then everyone went to find their seats and we made our entrances. So we took dance lessons and had an amazing dance prepared....but after a few steps the camera guy had moved his rig onto part of the floor and was turned the other away and spinning out and he ran into me with the camera rig and i tripped but kept my balance....after that we both got flustered and our minds just went blank, we couldn't recover....we just laughed it off and just winged it doing a completely different dance, LMAO!!!!! No one noticed that we screwed up...they thought that's how the dance was supposed to be. We're gonna film our dance how it was supposed be and i'll post it later. The swing dance performers were super wicked too!! Dynomite! The dinner was amazing even though i barely ate any of it. The tables looked gorgeous, all the decor looked amazing..exactly what i wanted. The speeches were so sweet! I can't believe my MOH (the one that just lost her husband to a freak accident) kept it together and didn't cry during her speech, she's so strong. The whole headtable was crying like little babies when she did her speech. Once dinner was over, dancing began and one of my BM's got super wasted, LOL! She was a mess! I found her crying in the ladies room cause she's having problem with her boyfriend.... and she couldn't find the backing of her phone, LMAO! I got the other BM's to hide her in my bridal suite for a while and sober her up. I was a bit annoyed at the time but i'm laughing about it now. Thankfully all the older guests had gone home by time she came out and started doing back flips and hand stands on the dance floor wearing her fancy dress (that was sewn onto her) with her underwear showing, LMAO!!!! I made one of the BM's drive her to my apartment when we went to the after party after the reception. At the end of the night we gathered all our stuff and while they were tearing down my wedding they already started setting up for the next event! It was 2:30 am! They must make so much money at that venue. So after we dropped all the gifts and whatnot at my in-laws house, i changed into my after party dress (a beautiful white strapless sweetheart knee length dress with pockets) and my husband put on his tuxedo t-shirt & jeans and we went to the after party in the distillery district. It was a private party for just our friends. We finally got home at about 7am. We were gonna get a hotel room but thought it would be a waste of money since we were at the after party so late, so we just went home to my drunk BM passed out with my MOH who helped her get home, LOL. Now she's gone back to B.C, we took her to the airport this morning...i'm gonna miss her so much. That's basically it. The venue looked gorgeous, the food was delicious (including the sweet table and popcorn), the DJ's rocked, the bridal party looked so freakin hot, and everyone had a blast! It was perfect even with the few issues. Everyone had great things to say about the wedding...they had never been to a wedding like that, they have seen a more beautiful set up, they appreciated all the little details and they all said i should be a wedding planner....can't get any better than that. I'm on cloud nine. Now we're looking into getting our tickets to europe for July for our honeymoon...can't wait!!! I need a vacation after planning that wedding for 2 years...it was SO MUCH WORK! I have slept only about 12 hours ALL WEEK! I need sleep! YAY, I'm Married to the most amazing person i've ever met!