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A tally: Who stays mad the longest? You or Him?

Me, he will be over it fast, I will still have my lip poked out and he will say something that makes me laugh, never fails... He will use that as bait to have a gentle conversation on what went wrong and how to make it right...

ummm honestly, FH and i don't fight or really bicker at all. people don't believe us when i tell them that, but its true. we disagree about things but don't really get mad at each other. the only time i can remember us fighting is when we were in mexico and FH didn't get me a birthday present because he figured being in mexico was a gift  in itself. i still bug him about that.

Exactly Gorgeous6!  My hubby's laughing right now, because he thinks us women hold grudges longer.

Sarahdarling, that's good. A trip to Mexico and no present? Hummm, I would have to brush that one under the carpet. LOL

oh yeah, i should clarify that he forgot completely that it was my birthday. it was 10pm when i finally asked him when he was gonna tell me "happy birthday". his face went blank and his eyes got really big then he finally sputtered out, "but we're in mexico and isn't that good enough?" it would have been good enough if he had just remembered in the first place. and now i'm bugging him about it again ;)

and we each paid for our own trip. he's sputtering and stammering about it all over again. so cute!

Usually I stay mad the longest. There are some things that he doesn't get over though. For the most part I have the worst temper and I stay mad the longest. Brandon get's so upset and gets his feelings all hurt when I'm mad. He normally does the same thing as gorgeous6's FH, tries his hardest to make me laugh to get over it....or feed me because half the time that's why I'm grumpy and confrontational. LOL

me definitely.  everything slides off of him. my guy doesn't get caught up in other people's drama.  he just lets himself be.

He definitely is the one who stays mad the longest. I'm usually over it in a few hours....but he will stay mad for a day or two!

I stay upset longer then he does. But he'll do something silly and i'll forget why i was mad. My grandmother always told me in order for a marriage to work u can't sweat the small stuff. He is teaching me that.

Ummm I think i stay mad the longest because he's always the one that apologizes and I do an hr later! LOL he don't really argue nothing serious anyway, but he gets ove rit the fastest!

Hmm, hard to answer this one. I would have to say that he does because if I did he would be mad again..lol. He's very sensitive. I'm actually a little pissed off right now and he knows it so he might be giving me the cold shoulder tonight if ya know what I mean.  So, to answer this question today I would have to say me but here's the deal with today:

He wasn't feeling well so he slept in. I had plans to go shopping with his mother.  I was gone for about 3 hours.  He got up about 10 minutes after I got home. He was in a pissy mood (again not feeling well) and reminded me that he made plans to go to his best friends sons football game.  Ok, sorry I forgot and I'm really not interested in going. I stayed home and he went.  I went to get something to eat and he met me there afterwards.  He was all sweet..."i love you", i missed you", blah, blah, blah.  My thing is it was your choice to sleep in and it was your choice to go to the football game.  Then we went home and he told me that his car club was getting together tonight but only for a few hours due to work in the a.m. Nope, I didn't want to go again because this would require me to wash my car in a hurry and rush out looking like a hot mess.  So he went. 40 minutes ago he said that he would be on his way home...he's only 10 minutes away.

Sorry for the rank/vent but I'm pissed! Our wedding is in 12 days.  A week after our wedding I will be leaving for 3 weeks for job training in PA.  I felt bad before about this but not now..lol - Evil, yes I know but that's the way of a woman. Thank goodness for Captain Morgan and diet Mug rootbeer...that's all I gotta say about that.

Thanks for listening.

I usually stay mad the longest, but like your husband mine also breaks me down easily by making me laugh.  he is so funny and goofy and cute and can make me laugh in an instant, that its impossible to stay mad at him and he just has to make a certain adorable face and all is forgotten and he knows it and uses it to his advantage lol!

I think I do lol, he always tries to cheer me up and somehow it works everytime..even if it takes a while. We fight but make up fast.

I do god bless him for putting up with me I know I can be a pain in the a$$...lmao. I dont stay upset long maybe 2 hours the most if that, we never go to bed mad at each other, ever! :)

Well, this has answered a lot of his thoughts!  Hehhee. He sees that men are the ones that don't hold as many grudges like us girls do. Darn...I was hoping that the men out weighed the women!  Thanks for doing the comments! Let's love our men!

hmmm depends on what we were arguing about to be honest, I am DEFINITELY more stubborn than him and if he really p****d me off then watch out i will just be very quiet and not want to talk and he will try his best to make an ass of himself to make me laugh lol but if i do upset him enough he can be such a baby lol- he will stomp out of a room, slam doors and sulk- God damn i love him tho!!! haha! :-)

i think the question asked should have been who brings up past issues the most... lol... i might be mad at the moment but i get over it faster... it seams to mee that men like to bring $hit up later.

although we dont fight or bikker much but once in a blue moon we do and he would bring stuff up from a few years back... i just sit back and laugh at thim... ohh men...

Me he is only for a minute.  I am mad the entire day then before bed I kiss him and go to sleep the next day i'm back not talking to him again.  LOL.  I can stay mad forever.  Sometimes, i'll start talking to him and laughing and then say i'm mad at yo ass stop talking to me.

Oh my, let me in on this blog!  He is the one! He can be so mad at me for days if let be. We're not living together yet, but I'm sure when we finally do, he can't be mad to long.  I don't like being mad, makes my blood pressure rise!  LOL  Good blog question!

Oh I hear you girls loud and clear! Very interesting...

Ok I'm going to answer this the way my Pastor advised me years ago. "The one who forgives or moves on the quickest...Is the one who's most spirit filled"  GULP I try to be the one..lol we rarely argue

you can count me as the mad one for your tally!! although once in awhile its him, usually its me!! though never for more than a few hours, those hours can be intense lol