sorry.. wanted to respond but didn't know where to comment back.. i looked at the elmhurst.. i like it.. what are you paying per plate? i thought i remembered it being quite expensive? 140? and that church.. i live (well grew up) like 10 mins away from it and consider going home for my wedding all the time.. its a constant struggle. although i may have to go back if I cant find anything else..
and backus is like 5 mins from my parents house.. just no really good places for the reception.. hmm but thanks so much for your suggestions.