Wedding Hair Style

and other things that make me nervous

so from my last post, you all got to see one of my hair trials. I'm deciding between that and some thing a little lower down on my head [as promised, i found pictures courtesy of theknot]. My scalp is very sensitive and even having it in a pony tail for more than an hour can make it ache so i'm hoping having my hair securely in some sort of low bun [while maintaining some sort of volume or fun with my bangs at the top] will be the solution. The side 'dos are cute but they make my neck sweat and always fall out on me! So tell me what ya'll think is best!

Also, I'm nervous about my music for my ceremony. I asked a group of my friends who normally sing at church to do my music. Its great and its special but i dont think they have all gotten together to practice once! I dont want to be bridezilla, but i'm nervous! i want every one to be on the same page come August 4th. Any suggestions for how to get the ball rolling?

ALso the limo... the guy seems really sweet but i just cant narrow down when i want him to show up. i plan on putting my dress on at the ceremony site so how early should i get there? should i ask him to drive me there? I dont know! what is your 'morning of' schedule?

thanks for all your help ladies!