06/09/2011
Black Wedding Planner Is anyone else too relaxed?
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Black Wedding Planner Is anyone else too relaxed?relaxed
  

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Is anyone else too relaxed?

I am getting married one month from today. i should be a wreck. I should have a to do list ten miles long. I don't. Sure, there are a few things here and there that I need to take care of, but, for the most part, it will be smooth sailing.

I should be worried that two of my bridesmaid won't be receiving their dresses until the day before my wedding, because they put off ordering them until the very last moment. I am not. At all. It was classic for these ladies! they do everything at the last moment, and I really do love them for it!

I should be worried that of the bridesmaids who have received their dresses, some of them do not fit right. While the dress fit perfectly in the store, now that it has been received, it has to be let out two inches to make room for her bust. (ALL of my bridesmaids are busty ladies! Which is made hilarious by the fact that I, am NOT AT ALL! Lol!) I am not worried about that either. I am certain it will be fine.

I should be worried that my mom found the dress that she thought would make the most beautiful mother of the bride dress ever, and purchased it on the spot, too small. Two dress fittings later, there are panels on the sides to let it out, but the seamstress couldn't find matching material, so they are "close". This, doesn't worry me either. Nor does the fact that she found the craziest shoes in the whole world to pair with her dress. It is just so classically my Mommy, that I love it!!

I should be worried that after four fittings, my dress still doesn't fit me in the bust. (like I said, I am uh, NOT well endowed...) That everytime I move my arm, I show the whole world exactly what God gae me to work with. Lol! But, I know my incrediblle seamstress will get it there eventually, and the dress feels lovely (if incredibly warm) every time I put it on!

Bottom line, I know my boy will be there looking dapper, I know my friends and family will be there to see our union, and I know that they will all be fed well. Really, how much better can it get?!
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princesni's Pink wedding
 |  Luanda, Luanda, Angola  |  06/09/2011
enjoy and relax reeally enjoy this time.
sweetlatina's Purple wedding
 |  West haven, CT, USA  |  06/09/2011
Everything will be fine and you are doing an excellent job of keeping yourself together :)
savagehart's Black wedding
 |  Rocklin, CA, USA  |  06/09/2011
Thanks ladies! I feel so totally calm, it is weird. But this whole wedding has just come together so beautifully, I keep telling FH that it was "written in the stars," even when little things go wrong, so many things are going so right, I just cannot complain at all! this is a beautiful process!
kaylag's Red wedding
 |  Boston, MA, USA  |  06/09/2011
omg loving that last line "I know my boy will be there looking dapper."

perfect. all that matters.
laurie88's Orange wedding
 |  Westminster, MD, USA  |  06/10/2011
lucky you! I'm 49 days out from my wedding and already feeling the stress and anxiety setting in. I wish I could be as laid back as you but it's just not in my nature.. lol I'm really not worried about anything it's just the to do list and my excitement to actually GET married. I've waited 9 long years afterall!
soontobemrsmccaleb's Black wedding
 |  Veneta, OR, USA  |  06/13/2011
Awesome girl....I hope and pray I am like you are a month before my wedding (probably not  possible, but I a girl can dream right?)! Love your outlook!! :-)
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