scheri's Chocolate wedding

I need a cool head to help me make my decision.

I ordered my birdcage veil (7) months ago and then made the mistake and talked about it and how happy I was to be wearing a veil as I am not a first time bride and the birdcage veil really looked perfect with my dress for the ceremony and pictures.

Unfortunately, my FI niece who is getting married this June decided to get a birdcage veil. Yes, she came over with her black birdcage veil to show me. I was gracious and asked her if she had a fascinator for the veil and she said she could not afford. Therefore, what did I do I gave her a fascinator I had in black with feathers that I had for a beautiful hat I have.

Now the questions is Do I wear my birdcage or is it now going to look like I copied her?

Help?