This is sclarke85's Blue Wedding!

So I have finally made a decision on what I want to do with my hair!

My Best friend and MOH is a hair Dresser and she tried this style on me and I loved it!.... I felt like ME!..... (Sorry dont have a pic of me n the hairstyle)... just the inspiration picture.

Now I just have to work on the Make Up!..... still havent found quite what I am looking for!

I know I want something more natural...... here are some of my faves.... let me know what you think!...

Had my Engagement shoot this past Monday.....

He took us all around St. Lawerence Market and took some really cool pictures! Nothing boring an cheesy!...... they were very edgy and cool looking!.....

I cant wait to post them on here when we get them (2 Weeks)

If anyone is looking for a Photographer in the Toronto GTA..... look up Diesel Worldwide Photography!..... The photographer's name is Andrew and he is amazing and so easy to work with!

We actually stumbled upon a movie set Downtown Toronto and we snuck in an took some photos on the set.... (The movie set was 1980's New York) So those should be interesting!.....

I am so exicted to see how they turn out!


Ohh and lets not forget ONLY 2 MORE MONTHS TILL THE WEDDING!
AHHHHH crazy!

I have so much to do!.......

So after all the Drama........ This is where im at!

The one Girl finally got back to me and she decided to come as a guest after all!.... So I figure It is what it is..... and lets all move on!

No hard feelings.... Wish it didnt happen, but what can you do?

As for the Ex- MOH, we talked it out and I told her she could still be in the Bridal party but she wont be my maid of Honour (For obvious reasons)

Anyways..... Enough with the Drama and on to better news!

The Dresses came in this week I am very exicted!......
(These are the girls dresses in the Picture)
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I also went for my First Hair Trial last weekend..... and lets just say that its WEIRD seeing yourself all Dolled up like that!... I got a little emotional!

I just didnt feel like myself!...... Strange????....

I like what she did with my hair, (sorry no pics on here yet) but I think I will tone it down a bit!... make it more ME!!

As for the Make up..... I told the lady.... I dont wear a lot of make up... So dont go Crazy!... I told her my colours were Tiffany Blue and Ivory and Guess what colour she decides would look wonderful on me???

LOL... Freakin Purple!!... I almost Died when I saw it!!
I am a fairly outgoing person... But PURPLE??? not exactly what I had in mind!! lol (No offense to anyone wearing Purple eye make up)... Just not for me!

I mean dont get me wrong I like Purple, but not for my wedding!....
She did a really nice Job and she knows what she is doing, but I just didnt like the colour choices!!

I showed my FH the pictures just to see his reaction, and He pretty much reacted the way I did!... He said it was Nice.... but Wasnt ME!!

My BM Amy is a Hairdresser so I am going to have her try a couple of different things on me So I know more of what I want when I go back to the Lady I booked with and show her Exactly what I want!

Just a little tip for anyone going to try Hairstyles.......
MAKE sure you DONT buy Hair accessories before you know what your doing with your hair, cause it may not work!!

I found that out the Hard way!!.... I bought these Hair Pins...they are gorgeous and Expensive .... and lets just say, that I dont even know if I can use them anymore... cause I just dont think they fit with what I want to do with my hair now!!!

So basically, I had to give the One girl, (Who's boyfriend is the main source of all this Drama - Long Story!!! ) the Ultimatum.....

Either come to my Wedding as a Bridesmaid without your BF or Come to the Wedding as a Guest with your BF!......(Her Bf is very jealous and has a Drinking problem.... I figured that if she was with him as a guest that he would behave).....
So I decided to extend the invitation to her BF if she came as a guest (Since she isn' t allowed OR wont come if Her BF isn't there -Pretty Sad)

I told her this on Friday and I haven't even heard anything back from her!......... Like honestly What does she want from me???
I thought I was being fair considering I could have told her to get lost after saying she wouldnt come to my wedding unless her BF was there!!

As for the other Bridesmaid (ex- Maid of Honour) I was having trouble with..... I decided to give her a second chance as well, and basically...... I am meeting up with her this week,for the first time since all of this happened!.....
We'll see what Happens there!

Just so you know the scoop - (These two girls were talking behind my back and to my other BM's trying to get them against me... because I wasnt inviting their BF's)..... (And the other BM's told me what was going on behind my back - thank god!...)

so In my opinion, I feel that they are lucky to even have this second chance with me!!.... Thoughts????

Am I being unreasonable?????.....

I never thought I would be sitting here 3 months before my wedding day, dealing with Bridemaid drama!

I always thought that the girls I grew up with my entire life would be the happiest and the most supportive of me and my wedding day! Turns out the 2 girls that I have known the longest and were really close with have turned thier backs on me!!...... when I needed them the most!

Its true that having a wedding makes people's true colours come out! call it jealousy, or envy... whatever you wanna call it, these 2 girls have decided to tell me that if their boyfriends cannot come to my wedding then they aren't coming either!!... WOW talk about selfish!

I never thought in a million years that they would have decided to not attend my wedding because their boyfriends couldnt come, when I specifically explained my reasoning for my decision!..... I understand that they might be upset, but after all that I have been through with the two of them ....... I never thought they would turn their backs on me the way they did!

So I basically told them that if they felt that way, then please dont come!... I dont want anyone there who doesnt want to be there, or is not there for the right reasons!!......

Please.... anyone who hasnt picked their Bridal party as of yet..... think about who you are asking to be standing with you on your big day!!.....

I now have one of the girls who is trying to appologize, but I just dont know if I could ever trust her the way I did before... OHHH and the kicker is she WAS my Maid of Honour!!.... Nice.. I know!! Not to mention my other bridesmaids are pissed at the two of them as well....(I have 6 beidesmaids in total)


And so the Drama continues.......

My Question is........ Do I accept her appology and move on... ???

Anyone??????

I am getting married this coming June and I am not sure what to do with my hair!

I plan on getting extentions put in for the wedding so my hair is thicker...I like these styles and I also bought these beautiful hair pins- with Crystal's and pearls on them

My dress is strapless sweetheart with pick ups and detailing on the bodice.......

Please help me decide... Thanks!