08/19/2009
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Bachelorette This Weekend!
A little (a lot) dissapointed.....

My bachelorette is this weekend and instead of being super excited, I’m totally bummed out! I’m totally having a Bridezilla moment right now and I need to vent….BADLY…..

All my friends are BRUTAL to plan stuff with, they are all too busy for me and its been so frustrating the last year trying to light a fire under their asses to plan anything for my wedding, therefore I’ve done a lot of the planning myself which is humiliating and ridiculous. I planned a lot of my own shower and now I’m planning the bachelorette too!

My one bridesmaid mentioned at my shower (back in APRIL btw) that she wanted to help organize my bachelorette so I was super hopeful that with that much time to plan, it would be great! Boy was I wrong….a month ago I asked her if she even had a date picked out yet and she said no, she was waiting for me to pick one, so whatever, I gave her a few dates that I thought might work. It wasn’t until this week that she really starting planning anything and telling people about it!!!! Which gave people NO notice whatsoever and everyone already had plans that they couldn’t get out of. The only people even coming out of ALL my girlfriends and bridesmaids are myself, 2 out of my 5 bridesmaids and an old friend from highschool who I recently starting hanging out with again after 6 years of not seeing each other. Am I the only one that sees the problem with this???

And to top it all off….my one bridesmaid had to have emergency surgery so she is not even sure if she is going to be fully recovered in time for the wedding!!!!

I’m so stressed out and upset that I don’t even want to have a bachelorette anymore….but the 3 ppl that said they would be able to go convinced me that they would make sure that I had a good time so I said ok.

So I booked us a room at the Metropolitan in Toronto (cuz I’m the only one with a credit card apparently…so frustrating that I’m booking my own hotel for my own bachelorette!!!) and we are going to this club called Tryst….any of you GTA brides been there before???

I will let you all know how it turns out...lets just hope there is lots of alcohol so I can drown my sorrows at least!! lol
ramirez091209's Blue wedding
 |  Toronto, ON, Canada  |  08/19/2009  | 
aww that sucks!

Well my BM's are exactly the same way. They never respond to any emails and really haven't helped me with anything.

it's mostly just my mom and I.

I say don't worry and just enjoy the party!!

My bachelorette is this weekend also!!!! =)
melissaepiphany's Black wedding
 |  Peterborough, ON, Canada  |  08/19/2009  | 
Definitely tell us how it went! Good luck
honeybee's Purple wedding
 |  Jackson, MS, USA  |  08/19/2009  | 
I hope it all goes well for you! You deserve a moment of fun and leisure.
hotpink's Pink wedding
 |  Ottawa, ON, Canada  |  08/20/2009  | 
Awww Nat, that's terrible! I hope it all works out for you..I'm sure it will be a blast. Like you said, drink lots and it's a guaranteed fun time...well for me anyways haha
I've never been to Tryst, but let me know how it is! Good luck, and post pics!! Can you believe we have UMM 3 WEEKS! AHHH :)
mimi79's Orange wedding
 |  Aurora, IL, USA  |  08/21/2009  | 
GOD HAVE YOUR FUN!!!
those girls can HATE all they want, just remember one day will come where they'll be needing YOU!... enjoy your time and don't let anyone or anything stress you.... NOT WORTH IT!!!!
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