We hate cake. We don't eat it for birthdays/weddings/etc. We also don't really like pie. Well, I like it enough, but Craig doesn't. So! We've decided to go with Apple Squares + ice cream. Using my Grandma's recipe of course ;).
That, and we decided to use Apples as our theme tie-in. (Apple Slice color from Dessy, Carmel Apple favors, apple ish invites--DIY of course--and anything where flowers would go, we're putting apples). Because I was literally freaking out over the flowers + bee combination. I had nightmares about it.
So, though I know it bummed people out about no cake... why serve it/spend so much more money on it when we're not going to enjoy it. Plus, Apple Squares are sooo easy to make! My mom can make 3 batches in just a couple hours and be done with it. It would cost maybe............$75? or less. Probably much less since all we would need to buy are the apples.
And $75 vs $800+...... really? Who really needs cake when there's an alternative that helps your theme and tastes tremendously better?! Not I!
we thought about the cupcakes too, but they really are just small cakes. blech :(.