Friends Come and Go

I had my bridal shower on Saturday, and my real friends and family came to support me and celebrate my upcoming day. What do I mean you may say? I had to go to work training on the same day and my cousin was there too. So I asked her if she was going to come to the shower and she said yes. Now a little bit of background about us two: We were (key word is WERE) good friends more like sisters. We used to always go out and talk on the phone until one of us fell asleep. Then I started talking to my FH and for some unknown reason everything went downhill in our relationship. We stopped talking and hanging out. She was single so I am thinking that she felt like she was a third wheel. Then me and my FH had to take some time apart and me and my cousin became close again. FH came back and what happened....you guessed it stopped talking to me I am completely stopped talking to me.

I tried and tried making amends with her even though I did nothing wrong. So our relationship went from being sisters to being associates. As a matter of fact she was going to be my MOH until things turned sour. Anywho I invited her to the bridal shower just to be a good person and she said that she was going to come. It was at my MOH house so I knew good as well that she did not know where she lived. After training I went home and got myself ready for the shower. When I got there my real friends and family were there, however my cousin wasn't. I really was not surprised but I thought that it was trifling that she had lied to me about going and if something had occurred she could have at least sent me a message. What really pissed me off is that she was on facebook talking about how she was partying with her friends. Really? But you know what I'm not even going to worry about her and I'm not going to force her to talk to me. I had a GREAT time with her absence.

She is Supposed to attend the wedding. if she does great if she doesn't oh well. Time will tell.