soon2bepayton's Chocolate wedding

This is a board I put together. I thought I wouldn't like the brown under a black tux, but I think it actually looks really nice! And the bridesmaid dress is from David's Bridal. I am letting my bridesmaids choose their style of dress as long as it is in the chocolate brown color. Well, technically that color in the picture is "truffle." Our reception is in a tent, so I am trying to think of ways I can make it look really nice. Maybe I'll put pictures of the tent on here so people can give me some suggestions. I am thinking that I might want something with white Christmas lights under tulle or some kind of fabric that will make the lights softer. I also may want Japanese lanterns. I am so worried that the tent is going to look too bare. Anyway, so our main colors are chocolate brown and ivory, but I want to throw in a less neutral color. I want to incorporate some blue (hence the blue and ivory flowers) because that is my fiance's favorite color. I want things to look nice, but I don't want to spend a fortune on something that is going to last one day. Like, it is important to me, but at the same time it's not... does anyone else go through these phases of being like, crazy and wanting things to be perfect to basically not caring? Sometimes I want to elope and kick this planning to the curb.