Ask a Question - Tired of wedding planning - SPCLAGNT27's Pink Wedding by Color Blog

I haven't been on WBC or any other wedding-related websites for a little, especially since I've been sick and had to miss alot of work. I just have ZERO interest in anything wedding related lately (luckily most of my big stuff is already done, so I don't have to worry about any schedules or anything). I'm just not excited about wedding planning at all anymore and really don't care about it, especially since I'm stressed out about alot of other things, including money. Also, no one else really cares about helping with anything(bridesmaids, families, etc), so I'm starting to feel like why should I be forced to do it all myself? It's just starting to seem like an expensive pain in the ass. I'm sure this is just a phase, but has anyone else felt this way?

I am right there with you! For a little over a week I haven't really done anything wedding related. I don't really plan on doing anything at least until after the holidays. This is a pain in the ass, I have not started having fun with it yet. I think we'll get over it though. I understand about not having helpful bridesmaids too. None of mine care to help me with anything. It will get better. I only feel motivated to look at wedding stuff when I get on WBC.

Yep I've felt that way recently. Interest is starting to return a little but honestly I haven't cared for awhile. I think in my case school is just the priority right now. I was hard core planning for awhile and I think I got burned out.

Oh yes welcome to my world - money on top of Christmas on top of a wedding 5 wks after Christmas is such a pain in my ass right now. I have a million things to do and zero interest we need money to do everything or should I say I need money and theres not alot of it coming in with everything going on. So sick of planning and trying to do everything myself.

I'm in that stage right now kind of. We got all our big things figured out and now it's only flowers and dresses and things that can wait a little while, and I'm kind of in this lull. That's okay though, because there are holidays and finals to worry about in the next couple of weeks, so I have better things to worry about.

I feel the same way!!! I just recently went out shopping with a few people and said tonight I just wanna shop and not talk about anything wedding. It gets so stressful sometimes that you just don't want to deal with it anymore. It's funny because I thought I was the only one. You always hear this is supposed to be such a happy time for you two. YEA RIGHT!!! haha. It's def. not happy all the time. Me and my FI fight all the time! It's going to happen. But in the end I just keep telling myself it will be a beautiful day and everything will be perfect!