Instead of a standard ring bearer pillow, I am using this amazing vintage ringer bearer plate. The rings get tied onto the plate and sit inside it.
On the face of the plate it is engraved with "To Have & To Hold"
One of the reasons I love this is because the ring bearer can actually the rings and very discretely pass them off and the best man can easily untie them while at the altar. No need to distract people with a large pillow.
Thanks
Cindy