This is thicansxy's Blue Wedding!

Wish I could find some better pictures. But as soon as I walked in I new it was the place for me. The funny thing was, when I was about 8 I danced Jazz there for 3 yrs. Then when I was 16 they turned it into a club and that was my hang out tell I was 18. So I feel like its a part of my past, and this couldn't be a more memorable place for me.

I am trying to find the cheapest vases, I only need about 8. I will be placing white branchs with gel ice. Does anyone know where I can get cheap vases. These are from IKEA.com the one shown is 1.49 and the square one is 2.49.

The guys will be wearing brown tuxes with ice colored vest and tie. Should the girls wear ice blue or brown? Or maybe brown with an ice ribbon.

I added a background and I cant now edit my profile info. Then every time I go to add a bride it logs me out. I dont know if anyone else is having problems.

Father Daughter Dance --
Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses
Rascal Flatts - Here

Something Blue
* 2 oz Hpnotiq
* 2 oz white wine
* 1 oz ginger ale

Blu Fizz
*1 Shot Blue Curaçao
*Top up Champagne


Or just go to this site and look for your color http://www.in-the-spirit.co.uk/cocktails/browse_cocktails.php?type=thb

I found these Ice Cubes at (cheap's site found) http://www.glowproducts.com/barglowproducts/multilightedicecube/

Ok since we got engaged right before I left to North Dakota I havent had much time to plan. Let me rephrase that I have done a lot of planning but not of the actual labor. There is not much I could do from ND

Now that I am back I feel over whelmed.

I havent found anything that has really got my full attention. I guess I just keep looking.

So I have been in North Dakota for tha past 6 months freezing my tush off we went up there in hopes he would get a job that was promised to him. Ofter a month of not hearing anything he got a thow away job just to support us cause I couldnt find work . I stared getting depressed being away from home and not knowing anyone there.

He promissed me once the snow left he would help me drive back to Washington. Well he had to use the excuse of family emergancy to get the time off. The whole trip was ruff. We left ND 6pm on Thursday night we didnt get to my parents tell 8pm. Its only suppost to take 17hrs.

Where he is working I guess you have to be in your position 6 months before you can get a transfer well he has been in his for a little over 2 because he keeps getting promoted. So we new we would be apart for a little bit. I was ok with it but its only been 2 days and i am freaking out.

So he just gets home today and he got a letter in the mail saying he was fired for missing 2 days in a row without calling. So he is over there with no job. Not knowing when he will get the money to get back here plus pay the bills.

I am trying to find centerpieces without flowers to lower the cost.

Even though most my colors are blue and white I want brown in there.

Well he left on Thursday by bus to North Dakota. It's Monday now and I have had probably 16 hrs of sleep. It is so hard adapting to this. I have tried a body pillow stuffed animals and tucking the blanks under me. Still no luck. I have been falling asleep on the coach and then in the middle of the night my neck will wake me up and then I will go into the bedroom.

I have about half the place packed and hoping to be out there with him in about 2 weeks. A guy from church told me he would be able to drive me out there with the u-haul and towing my car behind. But I call him today to let him know the week i am trying to go. He is now being a flake.

So my fiance is staying with some of my friends and in which they have unlimited long distance. I thought he would have been calling me more then he has been. I guess I just miss him. I want to pick up the phone like every 1/2 hr to call him but I hold back. I dont want to seem like a bug a boo.

Well everyone says I need to change my colors because the dress has some blue and green beads and embroidery on it. In which is not that big of a deal. So I am picking go old brown, Tiffany blue, and ???? not sure. Which other color would be good. I like things a little flashy.

Here is the other thing that has me in tears. My fiance might be getting a job in North Dakota. So that means I will be here in Washington and he will be over 2000 miles away. If he does get the job I might have to change the wedding date. He probably wont be able to come out this way for aleast a year and if he does go then I will be moving out there in about 6 months.

Mom is saying I should get married now before leaves. But I want everyone else to be there with me. My sister (in Germany) friends from out of state.

I kinda hope he does not get the job, but I also think it will be something good in our lives. He will be making more money and North Dakota's cost of living is so much lower then Washingtons.



I know everything will work out, but right now I am FREAKING OUT!!!!!!!

My wedding dress came today. It's not totally what I wanted but it was only $11.99 so I cant complain. Lane Bryant was having a end of season sale. This was the only one left. Hey I cant bet $ 11.99. So I actually bought 2 (in different sizes). If I dont wear one I can sell the other one.

I tried it on and it actually looks really good. I am kinda excited that it looked so good on me.

Saysomething like there are many very special people in the life of the bride and groom, some they knew others they learned about through the precious memory of others but all have helped shaped their lives. Many of the special people they knew are physically here today. Others have been called home. At this time the bride and groom wish to honor their __(her father)________ who have been called home. __Tonya___ and _Joseph___ have their __(her father)__ with them in their hearts and know they are here in spirit. __Tonya__ and __Joseph___will now light a candle which will represent the presence of their __(her father)___ during the Rite of Marriage.



Corinthians 1
Chapter 13
Verses 4-8:
Love is patient
love is kind.
It does not envy
it does not boast
and it is not proud.
Love is not rude
nor is it self-seeking.
Love is not easily angered
and it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects
always trusts
always hopes
and always perseveres.
Love never fails
Amen.

I, ________, take you, __________, to be my wife/husband.
With deepest joy I receive you into my life that together
we may be one. I promise you my love, my fullest devotion, and my tenderest care.
I pledge to you my life as a loving and faithful wife/husband.
To laugh with you in joy, to grieve with you in sorrow,
To grow with you in love, to be faithful to you alone,
For as long as we both shall live.



Ring Ceremony:
Minister: "The wedding ring is a symbol of eternity. It is an outward sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two hearts in endless love. And now as a token of your love and of your deep desire to be forever united in heart and soul, you ___, may place a ring on the finger of your bride."
Groom: "____, I give you this ring in God's name, as a symbol of all that we have promised and all that we shall share. May it serve as a reminder that you are never again alone. Let my heart be your shelter, my arms be your home. I give you my heart until the end of time.”"

Minister: "By the same token ____, you may place a ring on the finger of your groom."
Bride: "____, I give you this ring in God's name, as a symbol of all that we have promised and all that we shall share. May it serve as a reminder that you are never again alone. Let my heart be your shelter, my arms be your home. I give you my heart until the end of time.”

pale pink gerberas (brown centers)
stephanotis (white stars)

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