I found the dress!! I picked out the most beautiful dress by Casablanca Bridal. Pictured in trumpet style, but I ordered it in A-line. Came in, and fits perfectly! Beautiful Swarovski crystal and pearl accents, with Swarovski buttons down the length of the cathedral train.
Here is a link to it!
http://www.casablancabridal.com/Products/Detail.asp?View=F&ModelNo=1902&Cat=Spring%20Collection&SubCat=2008