Bachelorette Party: - Feelings got hurt yesterday - TIFFANYRANAEKASTEN's Orange Wedding by Color Blog

First things first my bachelorette party is tomorrow yay me its gonna be so much fun I cant wait as you all know the theme is Luau and my aunt is the one throwing it for me Fhubbys bachelor party is tomorrow too but i have no clue where he is going because i dont want to ask lol

Now for the feelings got hurt part yesterday on Facebook I wrote as my status cant wait for the weekend to be here because this week has gone by so slow its annoying me lol nothing at all to do with the wedding just the fact that the weekend needs to get here fast well this guy commented on my status and said to me I think im more excited for your wedding to get here because im sick and freakin tired of hearing about your wedding on facebook and then some girl liked what he said to me My feelings were hurt because i seriously didnt know that it annoyed people that i talked about my wedding but i obviously dont talk about it that much because it wasnt even my status when that kid said that to me the thing is the kid that said it to me was my cousin but dont really know him all that much just found out the beginning of this year that he was my cousin.....But either way it still hurt and i still dont understand how i annoy people with talking about my wedding I mean i do it all the time on here granted this is a wedding site and your supposed to talk about your wedding but you girls dont find it annoying do you????? I'm so confused and hurt right now because No one else was annoyed by it because no one else said anything to me about it Well i got really offensive and freaked out on him and told him that i wasnt even talking about my wedding and he need to keeps his nose where it belongs and out of my buisness and kept telling him whatever well i guess that made him realize he hurt my feelings because 5 minutes after i deleted the status he messaged me and said he was sorry he was only kidding and he thought i should have known he was kidding and i told him that he hasnt been in this family long enough to be kidding with anyone in my family he doesnt understand the bond my family has one person in my family could have saw what he said to me yesterday and totally freak out on me maybe even gone postal if they realized he hurt my feelings I know he made Alex mad aka fhubby lol because he hurt my feelings and Alex hates when im hurt

My question is am i overreacting???? Should my feelings been hurt by that comment??? and do you ladies find me annoying???? Very confused right now

I agree he shouldn't have made the comment, especially on FaceBook, but don't hold a grudge. He's not in the wedding party and it sounds like you two aren't even that close, so why bother?
I think his apology should count for at least something. I understand that you were angry and upset, but in the long run, does it really matter what he said on FaceBook after apologizing?
Honestly, I find most of my friends on FB annoying, so I 'unsubscribe' to their status. On here, no one is annoying when talking about her wedding, that's what this website is for :)
And have a great time at your bachelorette party!!

Thanks girlie im not mad at him anymore because im not the type to hold a grudge its just i wanted to know if i was annoying anyone lol and thanks i will have fun lol

its different for ppl not in 'wedding planning' phase of their life. I know when I get together with girlfriends, the conversation is much different with those that are getting married soon than those who are not. With my non-wedding girlfriends they'll say 'hows wedding planning' I'll answer 'good' and thats about the extent of it. While with my other gfs I can really get into and share the little things that I feel the others don't care about.

But don't worry about FB and haters

I agree, I wouldn't worry about what he said, he apologized, it's over. And you are free to put whatever you want on FB, so he can deal or unsubscribe. I actually do get annoyed when people count down on FB, but ONLY when its like over a month away. You have a few days, so you go ahead and COUNT AWAY!!! Have fun at your bachelorette party, can't wait to hear about it!!!

Sometimes it's annoying to people who do not understand. I'm going through the same thing. I don't talk about my wedding so much to people because I know how it can come off to people who are not getting married.

It's understandable that your feelings got hurt, but at least he apologized. Some people don't really know how to talk to others, even if they are joking around. It's like they expect you to just KNOW that they are kidding around, when it doesn't come off that way.

Keep smiling and enjoying the anticipation of your wedding and all of the events leading up to it. That's what this time is for and you deserve it! If other people do not understand then, oh well.

Thank you ladies for you comments it truly does help and I most certainly will have fun at my bachelorette party hopefully someone takes pics so i can post them but we will see lol

Of course you aren't annoying! That's what we're here for..so you can talk about your wedding all day long! I don't post much on FB about the wedding either or talk to ppl much about it except you all. only to ppl who I KNOW I can talk to about it. You aren't being overly sensitive, because you are the bride and it's ok. ;)

Like everyone said that's a good thing he did apologize because some ppl are just rude and don't even take the time to apologize. So that helps a little.
Have fun@ the party!!!

ksteward78: thanks girlie it truly does help with all the support i have with you ladies i did accept his apology :D

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