timsgirl's Yellow wedding

I was planning on having a wedding shower both me and my FH live with other people so when we move in together in August we won't have a lot of stuff .The problem is i've been married before he never has and hes the first child in his family to get married my brother doesn't think i should have a shower (his wife wasn't invited to my last on) because i had a VERY small one last time i got married . so do you guys think i shouldn't have one i'd really like to know what you think please let me know :(