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07/08/2008
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Ok so the date has moved up two months now from July 4, 2009 to May 16, 2009. I'm super excited but now I already feel like I'm falling behind in the planning which is frustrating to me. I know I still have plenty of time but I'm soooo trying to not stress right before my wedding so I'm trying to get everything done now.

I've got addresses for almost everyone on my side that I am inviting but Mr. slowpoke fiance is dragging his feet. He says he thinks its to early to get them but my thought is at least if we have them then we know we have them and were not stressing right before time to send out the invitations. Not to mention the ones that are coming from out of town I want to send save the dates to so those will need to be sent out soon. I only have 5 addresses I have to get but he has 14 addresses he needs to get. Some of them work with him so you wonder how hard would that be. He says we should just have one invitation and hang it up in the office for everyone. I say no I think that is tacky and so not personal. What do ya'll think?
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scheri
 |  Edmonton, AB, Canada  |  07/08/2008
No way no sign at company water cooler...remember it's an occasion you want people to make note of......

And yes you need an idea on how many you will be inviting vs the number of invitations for your budget.
nikkchikk
 |  Las vegas, NV, United states  |  07/08/2008
Does he have email at work? Why not send out an email asking for addresses?
tamaragb
 |  Carmel, NY, United states  |  07/08/2008
Oh good another May 2009.. Your fiance sounds like mine.. I am a "get it done" kind of girl but he is the king of procrastinating. Invites at the water cooler is very tacky.  Tell him to get on the ball. I am having the same issue with my mother in law, We need to send out the Save the Dates ( We are getiing married on Memorial day weekend) and she is worse then my fiance is getting me a guest list.  Good Luck, Tell him that if he does not give you the info you need then those people will NOT be invited. That is what I am telling my Mother in law.
thefuturemrssims
 |  Englewood, FL, United states  |  07/10/2008
I work at a hospital, and one of the nurses put a SIGN UP SHEET in the breakroom for her wedding... and no one signed up.. so my friend felt bad and signed me up! I agree that is tacky.
bekah301
 |  Miami, FL, United states  |  07/20/2008
yeah, most guys wouldn't think that was tacky but don't do it. I wouldn't worry to much about moving the date, it seems like your doing good on your planning.
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