vixysticks's Orange wedding

I would tell her shes crazy maybe... but I love crazy... I don't like it when I see other brides post rude comments about things that a bride has picked to be a part of her wedding, but this is the real world and some people are bitchy... I just think to myself... maybe her cat died today... ;)

Its one thing to say something is not your taste but I despise when people use the word tacky to describe something another person abviously likes enough to pick and use.

sometimes its better to live by the "if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all" theory. Don't go out of your way just to be rude.  Not everyone has the same taste.

yes I came back to add a 2nd thought but marta beat me to the punch... if I totally think is garbage I say nothing at all...

its always ok to add a little... comment like
"that would look great if it was (this color)"
or
"I would love that without the (whatever you think is eeeeew)"

I agree, with what's been said so far.I actually think it's better not to say anything especially if it may hurt someone. i mean these are our weddings a huge chance to express our personal style, so to each her own! :0)

i would say i don't personally like  such and such a thing but its what you like......thats all that matters......

Most brides on here are pretty nice... But one def. can be get down and dirty about heels... lol haha jk

This is a blog about your wedding. On what you want it to be. So it would be hard to shoot somebody down and tell her, "that is ugly or that looks terrible". I mean who would do that? I can understand some to be out spoken but jeez have a heart lol...

People have similar or different visions of what their wedding should be like. Some range to being more low key to elborate and over the top. Some people like me are cheap and are broke college students and we love to save money! Some like to buy $300 dollar shoes..(i am not sure if someone has done that .....its just an example...lol).........   It doesnt mean their wedding is going to be more fabolous cause of the cost. What makes it fabolous is how you feel about marrying the man you love and the family and friends that surround you in your happiness.

I wouldn't say anything unless she specifically asks for an opinion. Then I only offer what I might change or maybe suggest another option but never knock it. I think offering suggestions is important because I know personally I have my moments when I need someone to tell me I'm crazy. But's that's what my MOH usually does for me.

I would just not comment

I agree with Scheri i just wouldn't say anything at  all

I hope people would have told me, but I'm married now, so it's too late!!

i wouldn't say anything...if she asked for my opinion i would say it's not something i would wear but if you love it then do what you like. or sometimes i would say things like that would look so cute if you...