Ask a Question - How did everyone choose their MOH?????? - WAKELIN2BEE's Green Wedding by Color Blog

If you can't decide, then have someone in you family be MOH so that there won't be any hard feelings.. thats what my fiance did with his groomsmen.

Pick the person who has always been there and will be there afterwards too! I have lots of close friends, even a oneI have known since the age of 2 "my cousin." But I went with my brother's wife. She has always been there, through all of my failures and triumphs, relationships and life, she knows more about me than my own family! She has been by my side through my whole relationship with Jesse, so it was the only thing that seemed perfect!!! And a kick ass Best Girl she was...tear!!

-AND We don't like the words MAID/MATRON of Honor (sounds like she should be cleaning my house) and if the groom can have a best man, well then damn it, I had a Best Girl!! :)

it was easy she is my best friend and i was her MOH last year

who says that you have to choose? If these are all your best friends then there should not be one more special then the other and they will all want to pitch in and do the most for your special day! tell them that you want them all to be their with you and that each and every one of them are your Maid of Honors! Have them stand next to you at the alter in height sequence, or dress style... :) or hair color!

Pick a person that is very reliable and will be there for you and help you with the wedding. I also have known people that have had 2 MOH's.
I picked my best friend since 7th grade to be my MOH.

I am very close to all of my bm's but I picked someone in my family so that I wouldnt have to choose between my friends my cousin/godsister will be my MOH and she's awesome.

yea i think they should all be called your "maids of honor" either that or choose according to length of friendship

My choice was easy she introduced me to my future husband. That trumps even my (2) daughters.

Mine was simple shes my BF we've been friends for 13yrs and we're room mates .....for now *sob*

do you have a sister or close family memeber? that is always a good way to go, most likely they will always be there and your relationship with them is not likely to change over time.... I say if you don't do that go with your heart!

I have one sister, my twin. That was pretty much decided since birth....and I couldn't be happier.

I dont have a sister of close family member.. we're one of those distant families.. I have just made my own family with my friends... Thanks for all your ideas and advice!

i picked the person who's always there for me, 100 % straight up will tell me the truth about everything. even if i didnt want to hear it and got pissed at her. didnt matter. shes my best friend and sister-in-law. picked her over my twin sister! and my best friend whom i've known for 30 years!!