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Arggghhh!! 45 days! Anyone else feeling the pressure?

I am quite a ways away, but there is still family drama going on that hasn't been resolved at all and lately this week I have been just freaking out!!! haha  I just think of everything that needs to be done and I probably only have a year or possibly under! We haven't even set a date yet, due to the family drama. UGH!! So, I hear ya, sister!! I guess, just take one day at a time and remember to breathe. Good luck!! I know you will get everything done on time and will still be a beautiful bride  :)

23 days for us!

Right now my stressors are definitely my sisters/BMs. One has a whole slew of health problems (they're doing a colonoscopy to check for colon cancer, this week.. on top of spinal problems, and her immune system attacking her body, causing her to lose golf ball-sized patches of hair, just to name a few), and I'm wondering if she'll be healthy enough to be a part of the big day, now.
My other sister STILL hasn't paid the balance on her dress (a cost we've eaten, and were hoping she'd pay us back for), and the dress is hanging in my closet as we speak. She hasn't even laid eyes on it (she lives 3 hours away), and I know for a fact that it will need alterations.. ugh.

My silly little complaint on top of this, is that I ordered (blank) water bottle labels fom eBay 3 weeks ago, and they still haven't arrived. I thought I'd have them printed/applied by now, so I doubt we'll get those done. It was a big deal to me, considering we're having an ourdoor ceremony.. but I guess it's not really life-altering. I'm just bummed.

Yes, I can honestly say that I did feel this way about 2-4 weeks before my wedding. Then exactly two weeks before my wedding I was in a really bad car accident that set me back!

It does feel overwhelming. But you definitely have to pace yourself. You can only do what you can do. In the end it did work out for me. Our wedding was beautiful. You just have to not try to do everything by yourself.