OK- So my bff sent out my bridal shower invites yesterday. My shower is 9-29-12. I know the date and time but not the location, theme etc.. So a mutual friend, who is also in the wedding, sends an email asking if I invited someone that is more of a friend to her than to me (are you following me?) My response was no, because we are not close like that but I did invite her to the wedding. The friend calls my phone and basically tried to go off on me saying that was rude because the other friend was standing right there and read the email. To me...I was not the one that was rude. It was rude for her to ask me that question knowing someone was in her office and could see the email. Also...she said "She is good enough to come to the wedding but not the bridal shower?" Ummmm..YES because a bridal shower is for close family and friends. Also this same person told me she wanted to come to my wedding when I bumped into her. Had that never occurred, she would not have ever been invited.
I am so frustrated because this turned into some small drama that didn't have to happen if my friend who is also a bridesmaid would not have ASKED ME THAT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER GIRL.
Am I right or wrong???????????????